Dear Susan, 

One does not exclude the other. I also feel that your
interpretation of what Abdu'l-Baha is trying to do is
too narrow. I think it does apply not only to assembly
members, but to all of the community. I will later
post some quotes for the reason why I think this, when
I am back at a machine which has ocean on it.

The focus on unity is very strong in Abdu'l-Bahas
words and writings. Yet I do feel free to bring up
anythign to the Assembly. I think I am quite unique in
this, it seems that not many Bahais feel they can do
this, or if that if they try they are rebuked. 

I think part of the problem is also the way we are
trained to think in the west. We are trained to reject
authority and to work for ourselves, to be competitive
and to see the negative first before the positive. and
to be very attached to our opinions. And to be
argumentative, rather than proceed things in a manner
of consultation. 

I am a very argumentative person. I quickly fall into
a pro-contra discussion. here in Ireland that is not
at all appreciated ;o) 
For a long time now I am asking myself how I can raise
questions and issues I have with decisions taken by
institutions and yet be cooperative and do it in a
consultative way. 

by experimenting, not fearing the rejection of others,
or disapproval, and open for correction, I am
learning. 

The realisation that my opinion and interpretation of
the writings is but an opinion and interpretation and
not the absolute truth I so often feel it is, helps
;o)

The realisation that I may see more than the average
Bahai in my community or the country I am in, helps as
well. And then the advice of Baha'u'llah to offer a
truth in the utmost kindness, and if it is not
accepted to be unconcerned by that, to be detached
from that. 
I feel free to offer my insight, because I am not too
concerned whether it is accepted or not. It may be
that I am seeing more than another, it may be that i
am just fooling myself. If I see more and itis not
accepted, then clearly the community is not ripe for
it. I can bring it up at another time. I am part of
the process, andthe process is not in my hands, but in
Gods hands. I can worry about it, but that does not
help. 

Look what Abdu'l-Baha and Shoghi Effendi had to work
with. Plans failign because people did not do what
they needed to do and were told to do. And how patient
and lovign they were. sometimes we have to turn to God
and exert the utmost patience, because the community
at large is not where we are, yet. And forcing it does
not work. 

much love, 

janine van rooij
dublin ireland




--- Susan Maneck <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> Dear Scott,
> 
>  What Abdu'l-Baha was trying to do was make sure
> that individual Assembly
> members did not undermine the authority of the
> institution as a whole by
> opposing the decision that body made. For them not
> to act in unity under
> these circumstances is rather like parents arguing
> discipline issues in
> front of their children--almost never a good idea if
> discipline is something
> the parents hope to maintain.
> 
> I think the problem with over-generalizing that
> quotation from Abdu'l-Baha
> and applying it to the community as a whole rather
> than the individual
> members of the Assembly that made the decision is
> that it prevents the
> Assembly from getting the feedback it requires to
> determine whether or not
> something they implemented is working so they *can*
> change it if need be. If
> the believers 'for the sake of unity' feel they
> can't say what this isn't
> working corrections will never be made.
> 
> warmest, Susan
> 
> 
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