Bug#1053946: tqdm and pandas 2.1 / python 3.12

That turned out to be easier than it looked - fixing the easy one also made the others go away. Please upload this: https://salsa.debian.org/rnpalmer-guest/tqdm

Bug#1053946: tqdm and pandas 2.1 / python 3.12

Control: retitle 1058160 tqdm: tests failing/hanging in Python 3.12 That works for #1053946 (pandas 2.x), but #1058160 (python 3.12) is more than a single hanging test, and it's not immediately obvious what should be done. Attempted fix (caution, currently just skips the hanging test) and