Re: [Gendergap] the state of civility on en.wiki

2011-10-28 Thread Gillian White
Apologies for the formatting - the machine stripped the breaks that would
have made my post readable. G (I'm a workman blaming the tools ...) It
should have looked like this:

I’d like to agree with Daniel that “purgative rituals” should be added to
 the repertoire of ways to deal with these very difficult problems. In modern
 times, the label for this is behaviourally-based change or [[behaviour
 modification]] and it works better than exclusion or punitive strikes. As
 Daniel said, these methods remind people what the point of things is (things
 like other people and the society we all have to work in) and they provide a
 way forward. Exclusion, excommunication, imprisonment, whatever you call it
 in the real world, is like banning – it not only loses any contribution they
 can make but more importantly, gives time and space for anger and resentment
 to build and then burst out when the opportunity arises (in this case when
 the block expires).



 Dealing with graffiti is an examples of this in operation – punishing and
 ranting at them gives them the fame they seek, so what works best is
 painting it over quickly. In WP terms this is reverting but it doesn’t work
 for this level of incivility, I suggest this is because the motivation is
 power, not fame (or possibly power as well as fame). That brings us back to
 the “collaborative goal setting” that Daniel suggests.



  Perhaps some options chosen by the individual could be added to Daniel’s
 idea of editing – it could be any quantifiable, self-chosen contribution,
 including editing some other favourite topic or being a wikignome or
 wikifairy etc. Or, the person could work one-on-one with someone from an
 opposing point of view to reach consensus on another sort of article. These
 are productive responses, the goal of which should be to keep the person
 productively engaged and have them experience their work as valued.



 Other organisations have to deal with anti-social behaviour and perhaps we
 could learn from them. The excuse that they are “making such good
 contributions”, for example, has also confronted other industries/
 organisations. Some groups use the money they pay for a service as an excuse
 for appalling behaviour. Examples include drunken football teams being 
 destructive
 in aeroplanes (the airlines have had to ban some teams) or rock stars in
 hotels (making the behaviour public helps get pressure for change in these
 cases).

 It is very similar to customer complaints that every organisation has to
 deal with. When I worked on this for a big organisation, I found that the
 customer complaints process ranged across and touched on everything from the
 trivial to the criminal and the process needed to take account of that
 range. So adding this tool (i.e. working on the encyclopaedia in some other
 way before being banned) to the box should help.



 In intractable cases, banning will be the only solution, but for the middle
 range of people who once enjoyed contributing productively, being given a
 “cooling off” period in which they can return to that for a while might
 work.



 I am assuming that ArbCom is the most appropriate place for these kinds of
 resolutions to be handled because it is not likely to be feasible for every
 admin to hand out such injunctions, nor would they be enforceable. Does
 ArbCom consider that behavioural disputes are as worthy of arbitration as
 content disputes? If not, is there a reason? If they do consider such
 intractable (and apparently easily identifiable) cases as within their
 scope, can these approaches be introduced to their repertoire of sanctions?



 Thankfully, I have never had to deal with these types of people on WP, but
 if I did, it would chase me away. While I think the issue is broader than
 the gender one, they are inextricably related.



 Gillian
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Re: [Gendergap] the state of civility on en.wiki

2011-10-28 Thread Ryan Kaldari
I also believe that ArbCom _could_ provide good solutions for these 
situations, but the existing model isn't very scalable and doesn't work 
for many cases. One potential solution would be for ArbCom to offer the 
services of a prosecutor for certain cases, when the person bringing 
the complaint doesn't want to be subjected to further harassment. The 
problem with ArbCom currently is that you have to have a very tough skin 
to go through the process, and in many cases it just makes things worse 
in the short term (which can last for months).


Ryan Kaldari

On 10/27/11 11:50 PM, Gillian White wrote:
Apologies for the formatting - the machine stripped the breaks that 
would have made my post readable. G (I'm a workman blaming the 
tools ...) It should have looked like this:


I’d like to agree with Daniel that “purgative rituals” should be
added to the repertoire of ways to deal with these very difficult
problems. In modern times, the label for this is
behaviourally-based change or [[behaviour modification]] and it
works better than exclusion or punitive strikes. As Daniel said,
these methods remind people what the point of things is (things
like other people and the society we all have to work in) and they
provide a way forward. Exclusion, excommunication, imprisonment,
whatever you call it in the real world, is like banning – it not
only loses any contribution they can make but more importantly,
gives time and space for anger and resentment to build and then
burst out when the opportunity arises (in this case when the block
expires).

Dealing with graffiti is an examples of this in operation –
punishing and ranting at them gives them the fame they seek, so
what works best is painting it over quickly. In WP terms this is
reverting but it doesn’t work for this level of incivility, I
suggest this is because the motivation is power, not fame (or
possibly power as well as fame). That brings us back to the
“collaborative goal setting” that Daniel suggests.

Perhaps some options chosen by the individual could be added to
Daniel’s idea of editing – it could be any quantifiable,
self-chosen contribution, including editing some other favourite
topic or being a wikignome or wikifairy etc. Or, the person could
work one-on-one with someone from an opposing point of view to
reach consensus on another sort of article. These are productive
responses, the goal of which should be to keep the person
productively engaged and have them experience their work as valued.

Other organisations have to deal with anti-social behaviour and
perhaps we could learn from them. The excuse that they are “making
such good contributions”, for example, has also confronted other
industries/ organisations. Some groups use the money they pay for
a service as an excuse for appalling behaviour. Examples include
drunken football teams being destructive in aeroplanes (the
airlines have had to ban some teams) or rock stars in hotels
(making the behaviour public helps get pressure for change in
these cases).

It is very similar to customer complaints that every organisation
has to deal with. When I worked on this for a big organisation, I
found that the customer complaints process ranged across and
touched on everything from the trivial to the criminal and the
process needed to take account of that range. So adding this tool
(i.e. working on the encyclopaedia in some other way before being
banned) to the box should help.

In intractable cases, banning will be the only solution, but for
the middle range of people who once enjoyed contributing
productively, being given a “cooling off” period in which they can
return to that for a while might work.

I am assuming that ArbCom is the most appropriate place for these
kinds of resolutions to be handled because it is not likely to be
feasible for every admin to hand out such injunctions, nor would
they be enforceable. Does ArbCom consider that behavioural
disputes are as worthy of arbitration as content disputes? If not,
is there a reason? If they do consider such intractable (and
apparently easily identifiable) cases as within their scope, can
these approaches be introduced to their repertoire of sanctions?

Thankfully, I have never had to deal with these types of people on
WP, but if I did, it would chase me away. While I think the issue
is broader than the gender one, they are inextricably related.

Gillian

User: Whiteghost.ink



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Re: [Gendergap] the state of civility on en.wiki

2011-10-28 Thread Fiona Apps
I hate to be overly simplistic but I find in these circumstances that IAR
applies. 

 

Just be courteous to all users involved, even those accused of incivility,
and use the Socratic method. Question them about their actions in a way that
suggests that you are not taking sides (which as an uninvolved administrator
or editor should probably be the case anyway) and ask them about their
assessment of the suitability of their behaviour. Usually when confronted
with having to do a self-assessment most will agree to at least back off
from the situation to get some head-space. Having a self-imposed break is
much simpler and produces much better outcomes than having an
administrator-enforced one. 

 

I know that's a highly interpretive way of looking at things but if we
over-think these things and try and put human nature into categories (not
that Risker didn't do a damn fine job there) we'll just end up where we are
now; constrained by policy and unable to tackle the reality of the
situation.

 

Anyway, that's just my two cents. Feel free to shoot me for it. 

 

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To: Increasing female participation in Wikimedia projects
Subject: Re: [Gendergap] the state of civility on en.wiki

 


There are a lot of challenges in being able to develop a consistent process
of managing user behaviour.  Here are just a few that I've noticed over the
years:

 

*   User acting entirely within editing policy, although usually at the
bolder end of the spectrum, being accused of behaving extremely
inappropriately, often with the words civility and/or courtesy thrown
in. 
*   Users relying on one editing policy to edit content in a way that
could reasonably be predicted to arouse dissent, and then accusing other
editors of failing to follow policy because they point to a different
policy. 
*   Two or more users starting off with minor barbs (usually starting
with allegations of policy/guideline violations and becoming increasingly
personal), continued escalation over the course of several posts, then only
one/a few of the involved users getting warned/blocked for incivility.
This one is particularly insidious, as it has the reasonably predictable
effect of creating significant resentment on the part of those blocked (the
now-sullied block log tends to be used as a club) whilst also appearing to
support the behaviour of the non-blocked participants.  Both groups tend to
feel the action justifies them continuing to follow the same behavioural
pattern. 
*   Long observation of wiki-history indicates that systemic problems
are rarely acknowledged, let alone acted upon, by the community unless one
or a small group of editors exceeds usual behavioural norms to focus
attention on the issue. To put it bluntly, it takes a lot of noise to get
the community's attention on systemic issues long enough to address them,
even partially.  This method has variable success, ranging from serious
community discussions and policy/practice changes through blocking or
otherwise sanctioning the users who raise the issues.  If not done well, the
attempt at problem resolution devolves into discussions about the
appropriateness of the initiator's behaviour rather than the underlying
problem.  Initiators are regularly referred to as uncivil.  
*   The use of the term collegial to describe the editing milieu.
Anyone who has spent much time in the academe will recognize a lot of the
problem behaviours we see on our own project, particularly personalization
of disputes, which is one of the major elements leading to the perception of
incivility.  Indeed, some of our most significant problem areas involve
editors with academic credentials behaving pretty much within the norms for
their profession, i.e., pretty unpleasantly toward those who don't agree
with their educated opinions. 

In other words, as a community we create a climate where poor behaviour is
the most effective means to motivate needed changes, where our policies and
practices can be used as weapons both to support negative behaviour and also
to punish positive behaviour, where the boundaries of unacceptable
behaviour vary widely dependent on a large number of factors and enforcement
is extraordinarily inconsistent, and where we openly claim to follow a
behavioural model that *sounds* progressive but is in reality possibly even
more nasty than our own.  

On reading far, far back into archives, it appears that incivility has
been a problem almost since the inception of the project.  In the early days
of the project, blocks and bans were almost non-existent, and huge amounts
of time were invested in trying to correct behaviour (considerably more
per capita than today, the community cuts its losses much earlier now than
in 2002-04). In fact, blocks and  bans were very rare until the arrival of
extensive trolling and vandalism in 2005-06, which led 

Re: [Gendergap] the state of civility on en.wiki

2011-10-28 Thread Lady of Shalott
While I understand the frustrations in this thread, it does us no good
to resort to incivil behavior here, even regarding a person who is
[most likely] not part of this list. I respectfully ask that we
refrain from comments like By god, I hate that man.

Thank you,
LadyofShalott

P.S. I realize this is somewhat belated relative to the particular
post I am referencing, but I felt it needed to be said.

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Re: [Gendergap] No Sources - argh!

2011-10-28 Thread Erin O'Rourke
Thanks Kaldari and Andreas, I appreciate the feedback!

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Re: [Gendergap] the state of civility on en.wiki

2011-10-28 Thread Daniel and Elizabeth Case

The use of the term collegial to describe the editing milieu. Anyone who has 
spent much time in the academe will recognize a lot of the problem 
behaviours we see on our own project, particularly personalization of 
disputes, which is one of the major elements leading to the perception of 
incivility.  Indeed, some of our most significant problem areas involve 
editors with academic credentials behaving pretty much within the norms for 
their profession, i.e., pretty unpleasantly toward those who don't agree with 
their educated opinions. 
In other words, as a community we create a climate where poor behaviour is the 
most effective means to motivate needed changes, where our policies and 
practices can be used as weapons both to support negative behaviour and also to 
punish positive behaviour, where the boundaries of unacceptable behaviour 
vary widely dependent on a large number of factors and enforcement is 
extraordinarily inconsistent, and where we openly claim to follow a behavioural 
model that *sounds* progressive but is in reality possibly even more nasty than 
our own.  

Exactly. We should keep in mind that many of the complaints about how 
Wikipedia’s conduct policies do and don’t work are, IME, hardly unique to us 
but quite common in many college and university faculties. Perhaps one of the 
accomplishments of Wikipedia is that it has allowed laypeople to get a taste of 
that.

And not just. It occurs to me how my own way of staying around echoes my 
father’s advice to any young lawyer joining a large enough firm: find a niche 
for yourself that will make you an asset to whichever faction is running, or 
perceived as running, or trying to run, the firm (and there will be factions). 
Do that and do it well, and don’t get too involved in firm politics, or more 
than you absolutely have to. He’s told me he was pleasantly surprised to read 
Richard Pipes, the historian, draw similar conclusions from his experience of 
the Harvard history department. He’s actually shared a draft of a PDF expanding 
on this, and it struck me how much his descriptions of a typical law firm echo 
some people’s descriptions of Wikipedia.

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