--- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, Traderdube <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > > Case in point is the nonsensical BS surrounding the little league field. > That was such a piece of crap story. Where are the leaders of the > community and why wasn't their voices screaming out against the BS? > Reidy, the Mayor, Bruno, the Bd of Ed, the school administration.
Government in AP I've come to realize is like living in a family. You build up defenses and mechanisms and ways of interacting with spouses, parents, children and siblings. Sometimes the noise of the past keep us from hearing or seeing what is NOW. We don't really listen sometimes. You build up positions like a military operation and refuse to budge. Take for instance the city and the BOE. Why be at an impasse? I am sure the condemnation of the BOE headquarters is a sore point. I am sure there are even other circumstances I am not aware of. We have to stop being prisoners of the past. We have to recognize that perhaps we were wrong, or even if we were not and the other was, how long do they have to pay for it? And for some reason there is a tendency not to be open in AP (and I assume most places). I give a person/entity more credit when they say "I made a mistake." Move one. I don't suggest singing kumbaya around the camp fire, but there has to be a realization that we are all in the same boat. Ultimately I believe most want to get to the same place but just have different ways of getting there. I know the city was aware of the BOE's position of standing in the way of the LL field. Whay was done to bridge the gap I don't know. Nor do I know why if nothing was done. Frank was courageous and spoke out. So instead of placing blame we move forward and fix the problem. That is always my solution. What needs to be done to fix the problem. All else is meaningless. Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/AsburyPark/ <*> Your email settings: Individual Email | Traditional <*> To change settings online go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/AsburyPark/join (Yahoo! ID required) <*> To change settings via email: mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/