I surmise that if a coach can teach a kid how to play football/basketball/baseball or any of the popular European/Caribbean futbol/soccer, there are rules, principles and penalty infringements that even a disadvantaged youth seem to grasp extraordinarily well. A certain structure. Children look up to coaches, ideally as a father or mother figure, they seem to lack otherwise. I wasn't talking about the yelling and abusive language some coaches seem to engage in. Nobody wants a "Bear Bryant" type in their face. They may be getting enough of that at home.
No, today's teacher has to be a life coach and mentor to get through to these kids, even if their living conditions may be afoul, it's no reason for them to not be given the opportunity of a "basic" education. Basic education does prepare one for higher education, if wanted. When Jim mentioned that one youth said he couldn't read, I thought,why not? Who gave up on him? I blame the parents and the system that allows a child to be "passed" through because someone refused to follow through on this kid and wasted taxpayer money. He might have been dyslexic, sight problems, hearing problems, or hungry! I'm not a teacher, but unless a kid can see and hear properly, someone is dropping the ball and passing kids to the next grade illegally and depriving him/her of a thorough and efficient education and that teacher and school should come under scrutiny by the local, county and state boards of education. At a club I frequent, a man was trying to choose songs on the jukebox. He came over to me and asked me for assistance. My regular glasses had to be replaced, so I was wearing reading glasses. I realized he couldn't make out the print on the machine, so I said, "here, try these". He did. To his surprise, he realized his sight had changed making it difficult for him to read small/fine print. He began laughing because he thought he was going blind. I suggested he see an eye doctor right away. In the meantime, I gave him the glasses. He was overjoyed that he could still read. They were steel-rimmed, so a man or woman could look the same. I had other readers at home, so it was no biggy to me to give them away. I realize that doctors may not always be able to do pro bono work but that's what the guidance office is for. If a teacher just take a little time recognizing that kids may have hearing/sight problems that they can recommend a kid be checked by a physician when they are not retarded/disabled/mentally challenged, etc., maybe Asbury Park kids CAN succeed. Just an opinion. --- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, "oakdorf" <oakdorf@...> wrote: > > > If a kid can take direction > > from a coach, why can't they succeed otherwise? What's wrong with > > this picture? Let the coaches TEACH! > > > > > > Teachers get in trouble for yelling or motivating kids...or whacking them on > the head... > > not that all oca > ------------------------------------ Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/AsburyPark/ <*> Your email settings: Individual Email | Traditional <*> To change settings online go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/AsburyPark/join (Yahoo! ID required) <*> To change settings via email: asburypark-dig...@yahoogroups.com asburypark-fullfeatu...@yahoogroups.com <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: asburypark-unsubscr...@yahoogroups.com <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/