Hi r, Way to go Hunny! Best Of LucK! I hope they understand. But don't haste. If you are with them for a few weeks or days give them hints. If u r effeminate I believe it will get easier (like in my case)! LOL! Well I am not out with my parents. But Im out to 5 of my freinds over last 6 - 8 month old regime. I am not out with my parents right now since my mom is not doing very well health wise and ONE VERY IMP. POINT - I STILL LIVE WITH THEM. I dont have a house or have not rented a flat of my own as yet - which i guess ill need once i tell them. LOL!!!!!. If u r dependent and have the urge of comming out I suggest u first come out with friends - as u said u have lived in a hostel for most of ur life. They will be in a better position to understand - provided u chose the right friends. May God Bless U! :) Regards, MtnG.
>From: "Neil" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> >Reply-To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com >To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com >Subject: g_b Re: Coming out to my parents >Date: Wed, 05 Apr 2006 12:25:41 -0000 > >Hi r, > >All I could say is All the Best. This is THE most important step in >lives of people like us. God Bless. > >Neil >--- In gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com, rohan r <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > > > Hi, > > > > I am planning to come out to my parents next week. > > Going home for Easter. Guess Jesus is not the only one > > who is going to be crucified and coming out. Though > > mine will be in reverse order. > > > > I come from a religious Mallu Catholic family. Anybody > > who knows how we function can understand me freaking > > out. There is hundres of butterflies in my stomach > > playing with a big ball of lead they got from > > somewhere. > > > > The biggest problem is going to be communicating to > > them. I have lived outside home (hostels n others) all > > my life. So the language at home is a mixture of > > Malayalam, English and Hindi. So you see, I dont even > > know whether they wud understand it, if I were to say > > I am gay. So I will have to go into more details, > > which is making me a lil squeamish. > > > > I am expecting a lot of 'Against God & Bible' and then > > some 'Society' and 'Nature' talk. I will get the > > hospital emergency numbers with me before I sit down > > with them, in case either of them decides to go > > coronary on me. (Was that bad humor?) > > > > Anyways, will let you guys know how it went. > > > > If any of you have gone thru the same experience, > > tips, Dos & Donts, and suggestions welcome! > > > > Thanks! > > r > > > > > > > > > > __________________________________________________ > > Do You Yahoo!? > > Tired of spam? Yahoo! Mail has the best spam protection around > > http://mail.yahoo.com > > > > > > > > > > Group Site: http://www.gaybombay.info ========================== This message was posted to the gay_bombay Yahoo! Group. Responses to messages (by clicking "Reply") will also be posted on the eGroup and sent to all members. If you'd like to respond privately to the author of any message then please compose and send a new email message to the author's email address. Post:- gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Subscribe:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Unsubscribe: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Digest Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] (attachments are removed in the digest mode. You get one or two digest mails per day containing all emails, minus pictures/attachments) No Mail Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Individual Mail Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Contact Us:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Rss feed: http://www.mail-archive.com/gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com/maillist.xml Archives are at http://www.mail-archive.com/gay_bombay%40yahoogroups.com/maillist.html Classifieds for personal advertisements are back on www.gaybombay.info site. Please exercise restraint in the language of your personal advertisement. To post mates/freinds wanted log on to http://pub35.bravenet.com/classified/show.php?usernum=2998156902 Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/gay_bombay/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
