Unfortunately, you're just going to have to let time calm Paco down. He's excited and young and full of energy -- be glad, it means he's healthy! You may have to limit, or at least continue to supervise, contact between Paco ahd your lhasa until they safely work out the pecking order. In ordinary situations I would say leave them be, the lhasa will establish his dominance and the pup will figure out his boundaries, but chi puppies are so tiny and fragile at this young age, you really can't afford hostility.
Re potty training. If you'll look in the Files section of the group's home page, there's a .txt file I put up called housebreaking.txt. You might check that out. If I were you, I would keep Paco either (a) on my lap, (b) in my arms, or (c) confined to a small, *non-carpeted* area, such as a bathroom, unless he's just recently gone potty. Don't scoop him up while he's going potty. You're sending him a confused message -- he thinks you're upset because he's going potty, not because of *where* he's going. Hence the cringing. He just doesn't understand what he's doing wrong. You need to set him up for success -- basically, keep him limited so that he really can only go on the pee pad (or paper), then praise him all over the place when he does so. Carpet is a hindrance to potty training because once he's gone on it, there's a scent to follow back to it. So as I said, I'd fix up a bathroom with a baby gate across the door, with his cushy bed area, food and water, and then carpet the rest of it with pee pads, gradually decreasing the number of pads as he learns. I prefer pee pads to newspaper because (1) urine can't soak thru to the floor, and (2) the pads are treated with a scent that encourages the puppy to potty on them. You can get pads in quantity very cheaply via eBay. Anne " Lets talk about our wonderful little friends! Join today! " Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Chihuahuas/ <*> Your email settings: Individual Email | Traditional <*> To change settings online go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Chihuahuas/join (Yahoo! ID required) <*> To change settings via email: mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/