Re: [Gendergap] Marketplace.org: Inside the sexual harassment in online gaming

2012-08-03 Thread Fred Bauder
Sexist harassment on Wikipedia is real, but the sort of stuff that normally goes on in the online gaming world is orders of magnitude more offensive and damaging. Also Wikipedia is not a video game :-) Gaming draws from much more difficult, and troubled, demographic sectors. They may share

[Gendergap] How to Kill a Troll

2012-08-02 Thread Fred Bauder
Just dropping in to share this: http://incisive.nu/2012/how-to-kill-a-troll/ with you. I started surfing from: http://www.nytimes.com/2012/08/02/us/sexual-harassment-in-online-gaming-stirs-anger.html and edited a bit at [[online game#Bad behavior]]. Fred

Re: [Gendergap] Am I crazy?

2011-10-24 Thread Fred Bauder
I've never particularly felt the boys club atmosphere on Wikipedia that apparently deters some women. However, I am very angry right now. I tried to add [[date rape]] as a see also link to the very incomplete article [[college dating]]. The relevance seemed obvious to me. It was removed by

Re: [Gendergap] User blocked for sexist comment, many disagree - it wasn't sexist.

2011-10-12 Thread Fred Bauder
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia:Administrators%27_noticeboard/Incidents#Block_review_for_Baseball_Bugs The first unblock statement shares the link to the joke and the reprimand by an admin on the users page telling them they can get blocked for ongoing comments like that.

Re: [Gendergap] User blocked for sexist comment, many disagree - it wasn't sexist.

2011-10-12 Thread Fred Bauder
You are right, of course, what we do is bad enough, without having to answer for the expectations of what our gender is expected to do. Fred Thanks for posting this, Sarah. I was hesitant to link to it while it was an active thread. My basic feeling in this case was that the user's comments

[Gendergap] Supporting Campus Ambassador programs [Fwd: Issue of Copy-Pasting]

2011-10-07 Thread Fred Bauder
Help is needed. Fred --- Original Message Subject: Issue of Copy-Pasting From:Hisham his...@wikimedia.org Date:Fri, October 7, 2011 7:46 am To: Wikipedia Ambassadors India wikipedia-ambassadors-in...@googlegroups.com

Re: [Gendergap] banned/blocked users - was: Re: washington dc

2011-10-07 Thread Fred Bauder
I think it just shows another aspect of Wikimedia that I think needs a better examination - banning and blocks and activities of those members on other projects. Extended blockings (1 year) and bannings mean that a user can't participate on that one project - but they are welcome to

Re: [Gendergap] Fwd: [Ticket#2011100710013059] Pictorial Depictions

2011-10-07 Thread Fred Bauder
You say, Would it not be more consistent to use a more balanced and cohesive aesthetic style across the whole subject of human reproduction and sexuality? Yes, and we do discuss that here. One train of thought is to use images of people as they are rather than idealized images. Fred

Re: [Gendergap] Fwd: [Ticket#2011100710013059] Pictorial Depictions

2011-10-07 Thread Fred Bauder
Hi Why is an OTRS ticket being discussed on a public mailing list? Correct me if I'm wrong but I thought the ticket info and address were supposed to be private, unless otherwise noted, no? Regards Theo I didn't see anything confidential here. OTRS referred her to this list. Fred

Re: [Gendergap] This list

2011-10-03 Thread Fred Bauder
I know that it is not typically stringently enforced on mailing lists, but I think that enforcing [[WP:CIVIL]] would be a good idea on this list. I can understand concerns over any form of moderation, but believe that for this list the benefits far outweigh the costs. An open atmosphere

Re: [Gendergap] Gendergap Digest, Vol 9, Issue 16

2011-10-02 Thread Fred Bauder
A bit rude are we? It would have been more useful to simply mention the other list, which I clearly was not aware of. Also, discussion followed on whether this is a positive development, and whether a number of other divisions will (or should) spring up after this. If anyone really would

Re: [Gendergap] vulgar jokes and sexualized environments on Wikipedia

2011-10-01 Thread Fred Bauder
To beef up women's assertiveness so they protest, or to give more power to some authoritarian editors to delete and block reverters, that is the question. Why not do both?? :-) Or just get more assertive female admins. A job I myself shrink at the thought of. I already have enough problems

Re: [Gendergap] vulgar jokes and sexualized environments on Wikipedia

2011-10-01 Thread Fred Bauder
And to think I was strongly criticized for posting about High Noon moments You'd make a fine administrator, and any process that would not do so is broken. Many of us know that and talk freely about it, but we've not been able to get far, or even get up the energy to try. Fred So I've been

Re: [Gendergap] vulgar jokes and sexualized environments on Wikipedia

2011-09-30 Thread Fred Bauder
Twice recently I have been reverted for removing vulgar jokes from article talk pages on the English Wikipedia - most recently for removing a joke who's punchline was A woman's anus after she was sodomized!. Although I appreciate the use of humor on Wikipedia, and support the inclusion of

Re: [Gendergap] vulgar jokes and sexualized environments on Wikipedia

2011-09-30 Thread Fred Bauder
It seems from my experience that WP:RD2 is usually interpreted fairly narrowly, at least in the cases I've tried to use it. Specifically it requires the material to be grossly offensive and excludes 'ordinary' incivility. In the world of Wikipedia, grossly offensive is a pretty high bar it

Re: [Gendergap] Nudity vs Islam in Western Europe

2011-09-27 Thread Fred Bauder
So you think we might get more done if we have the common sense not to discuss politics and religion? Fred Hi everyone, Apologies for my bad English. English is not my mother tongue. Let us not use this mailing list to discuss religion. Let us concentrate on strategies to improve

Re: [Gendergap] Nudity vs Islam in Western Europe

2011-09-23 Thread Fred Bauder
This rant is inappropriate. Islam doesn't do tolerance, in the sense that we understand it. In Islam you cannot leave, it is death penalty if you chose another religion. There is a grain of truth in such accusations, but you ascribe them to the entire religion. A part of what we are doing here

Re: [Gendergap] Labiaplasty

2011-09-17 Thread Fred Bauder
A lot of this surgery is cosmetic surgery, thus it is a matter of taste, not a matter of dysfunction or normality. And, usually, is quite private and nobody's business. So, I don't see a problem so long as the cosmetic aspect is clear. There is a plastic surgeon who specializes in this area that

Re: [Gendergap] Labiaplasty

2011-09-17 Thread Fred Bauder
On 17/09/2011 20:14, Fred Bauder wrote: A lot of this surgery is cosmetic surgery, thus it is a matter of taste, not a matter of dysfunction or normality. And, usually, is quite private and nobody's business. From an average citizen's point of view, certainly. From a parent's, educator's

Re: [Gendergap] Hairdresser, hairstylist...barber?

2011-09-15 Thread Fred Bauder
On Thu, Sep 15, 2011 at 5:03 AM, Sarah Stierch sarah.stie...@gmail.com wrote: I searched for hairdresser and was directed to barber. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hairdresser Kind of interesting, that it directs to barber and then discusses male barbers and men's haircutting culture.

Re: [Gendergap] Wikiquote

2011-09-15 Thread Fred Bauder
Did anyone see the quote of the day? Part of me wonders if was intended for us.. ;-) http://en.wikiquote.org/wiki/Main_Page Hahaha! ;-) Never argue with a garbage truck

Re: [Gendergap] Wikiquote

2011-09-15 Thread Fred Bauder
Did anyone see the quote of the day? Part of me wonders if was intended for us.. ;-) http://en.wikiquote.org/wiki/Main_Page Hahaha! ;-) Never argue with a garbage truck

[Gendergap] Wikifashion

2011-09-14 Thread Fred Bauder
http://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/fashion/students-startup-weaves-a-web-that-keeps-growing-20110914-1k9hi.html http://wikifashion.com/wiki/Main_Page https://secure.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/w/index.php?title=Wikifashionaction=editredlink=1

Re: [Gendergap] So this is how Commons works?

2011-09-12 Thread Fred Bauder
On Sun, Sep 11, 2011 at 4:53 PM, Sarah Stierch sarah.stie...@gmail.comwrote: This is a NSFW photo http://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/Commons:Deletion_requests/File:Korean_Vulva2.jpg Five for deletion, two for keep. This is its third nomination. An admin came in today and declared it

Re: [Gendergap] Resolution:Images of identifiable people

2011-09-12 Thread Fred Bauder
+1. There are hundreds of photographs of women sunbathing, walking down the street, etc. It makes me severely uncomfortable that we have people taking photographs of people in a voyeuristic manner uploading images to Commons, Flickr, whatever. Just because someone (of any gender) lays on

Re: [Gendergap] Consent for photographs on Commons

2011-09-12 Thread Fred Bauder
Here's something we might do though. Addition of any image which violates anyone's privacy to any article can be suppressed on the English Wikipedia. Using this policy: Removal of non-public personal information, such as phone numbers, home addresses, workplaces or identities of pseudonymous or

Re: [Gendergap] Consent for photographs on Commons

2011-09-12 Thread Fred Bauder
As soon as I have some free time, I'll whip up such a template and throw it into the water. It'll be interesting to see how it is received. Ryan Kaldari Ok, sounds like a plan. I'll make a noise in the east; you strike in the west... Fred ___

Re: [Gendergap] So this is how Commons works?

2011-09-11 Thread Fred Bauder
This is a NSFW photo http://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/Commons:Deletion_requests/File:Korean_Vulva2.jpg Five for deletion, two for keep. This is its third nomination. An admin came in today and declared it being kept because No valid reason for deletion, per previous decisions. Person

[Gendergap] The Gawker on Monica Lewinsky

2011-09-08 Thread Fred Bauder
http://gawker.com/5838090/monica-lewinsky-wants-to-go-into-pr Notice the sympathetic comments. I wonder what our article looks like. Fred ___ Gendergap mailing list Gendergap@lists.wikimedia.org https://lists.wikimedia.org/mailman/listinfo/gendergap

Re: [Gendergap] Question for the Foundation about photographs of women

2011-09-03 Thread Fred Bauder
On Fri, Sep 2, 2011 at 22:22, John Vandenberg jay...@gmail.com wrote: As Sarah Stierch points out, our images of sexuality and reproduction are crap, broadly speaking, and our paperwork/processes are self-evidently not good for attracting high quality photographs.  What processes should we

Re: [Gendergap] Question for the Foundation about photographs of women

2011-09-02 Thread Fred Bauder
Several women, including on WikiProject Feminism on the English Wikipedia, have recently expressed concern about the number of photographs of women's body parts that Wikimedia hosts, particularly regarding the issue of permission. It's far from clear in many cases that the women have given

Re: [Gendergap] Gender Gap IRC?

2011-08-19 Thread Fred Bauder
Any thoughts on having a gender gap or women's outreach IRC channel? I think it'd be nice to have an open hang out for those interested (of any gender) to participate in not only conversation, but, have live action dialogue about articles of concern and so forth. Or is that opening a can

Re: [Gendergap] Mostly about fem-edits dilemma

2011-07-08 Thread Fred Bauder
I work with professional women every day whose careers are in the world of information. They are avid Twitterers, expert Flickrites, Facebook fiends, and Foursquare addicts. At my library science grad program, everyone knows how to use MediaWiki, as it is used internally for classes. And

[Gendergap] pressured for time and feel stressed and overworked

2011-07-06 Thread Fred Bauder
Some research: http://www.businesswire.com/portal/site/home/permalink/?ndmViewId=news_viewnewsLang=ennewsId=20110628005338div=-867702808 ___ Gendergap mailing list Gendergap@lists.wikimedia.org https://lists.wikimedia.org/mailman/listinfo/gendergap

Re: [Gendergap] New Survey: 9% female editors

2011-07-02 Thread Fred Bauder
--- On Sat, 2/7/11, carolmoor...@verizon.net carolmoor...@verizon.net wrote: From: carolmoor...@verizon.net carolmoor...@verizon.net Subject: [Gendergap] New Survey: 9% female editors To: Increasing female participation in Wikimedia projects gendergap@lists.wikimedia.org Date: Saturday, 2

Re: [Gendergap] As I was passing through...

2011-06-23 Thread Fred Bauder
Wikipedia is equipped to deal with particular editing issues. Every edit is logged and can be viewed and discussed. Without specifics we assume everyone, you and those you had trouble with, was editing in good faith and had some more or less good reason for their edits or comments. You do seem

[Gendergap] New Dragon’s Guide 2: My New York City Wikipedia Social Meet up

2011-05-27 Thread Fred Bauder
http://www.dragonsearchmarketing.com/blog/guide-2-new-york-city-wikipedia-meetup/ Fred ___ Gendergap mailing list Gendergap@lists.wikimedia.org https://lists.wikimedia.org/mailman/listinfo/gendergap

Re: [Gendergap] Fwd: Photo of the Day on Wikimedia Commons

2011-05-26 Thread Fred Bauder
It is on the English Wikipedia that an attempt was made to draw firm lines regarding civility; though it has partially failed. Our efforts were even mentioned in The New York Times, although, when I searched I found this: https://www.nytimes.com/2007/04/09/technology/09blog.html Which is

Re: [Gendergap] Please , a question on deleted article SP Migrantas on women´s empowermente

2011-05-20 Thread Fred Bauder
/Wikipedia:Username#Company.2Fgroup_names That blocking policy sometimes comes across as a bit harsh. It is always better to have a word with the editor first, rather than block them outright. Andreas --- On Fri, 20/5/11, Fred Bauder fredb...@fairpoint.net wrote: From: Fred Bauder fredb

Re: [Gendergap] [Commons-l] Fwd: Photo of the Day on Wikimedia Commons

2011-05-18 Thread Fred Bauder
This response here is emblematic of the misogyny and ageism pervading Commons: http://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?title=File_talk%3AOn_the_edge_-_free_world_version.jpgaction=historysubmitdiff=54489618oldid=54483841 Coming up with stuff old women like would actually be a good idea, but

Re: [Gendergap] [Commons-l] Fwd: Photo of the Day on Wikimedia Commons

2011-05-18 Thread Fred Bauder
--- On Wed, 18/5/11, Béria Lima beria.l...@wikimedia.pt wrote: From: Béria Lima beria.l...@wikimedia.pt Subject: Re: [Gendergap] [Commons-l] Fwd: Photo of the Day on Wikimedia Commons To: Increasing female participation in Wikimedia projects gendergap@lists.wikimedia.org Date: Wednesday, 18

Re: [Gendergap] [Commons-l] Fwd: Photo of the Day on Wikimedia Commons

2011-05-18 Thread Fred Bauder
Fred, as I've already noted, the offending comment was apparently *not*eliminated from the final tally of the votes made by George Chernilevsky, though omitting it would not have changed the outcome of the vote. Nepenthe It should not have been considered. That is our standard practice with

Re: [Gendergap] [Commons-l] Fwd: Photo of the Day on Wikimedia Commons

2011-05-18 Thread Fred Bauder
Could we agree that a decision not to feature a medicore and non-notable piece of original art that offers no or little educational value is _not_ censorhip? And could we agree that featuring a medicore and non-notable piece of original art that offers no or little educational value, just

Re: [Gendergap] [Commons-l] Fwd: Photo of the Day on Wikimedia Commons

2011-05-18 Thread Fred Bauder
In this case, Sarah, change the policy of what should be in Main Page, or change the Sexual policy (in discussion by the way). _ *Béria Lima* So where is that discussion? I found Commons:Sexual content and Help:Sexual content and its talk page. But what we're talking about here is not

Re: [Gendergap] [Commons-l] Fwd: Photo of the Day on Wikimedia Commons

2011-05-18 Thread Fred Bauder
My point is this: a significant number of women (current and potential editors) don't want to work in a I like the big tits atmosphere, whatever was meant by it. Others don't mind. Point is that some *do* mind. Sarah So, was it an inane remark or a symptom of an atmosphere? I'm pretty sure

Re: [Gendergap] [Commons-l] Fwd: Photo of the Day on Wikimedia Commons

2011-05-18 Thread Fred Bauder
On Wed, May 18, 2011 at 10:16, Fred Bauder fredb...@fairpoint.net wrote: My point is this: a significant number of women (current and potential editors) don't want to work in a I like the big tits atmosphere, whatever was meant by it. Others don't mind. Point is that some *do* mind

Re: [Gendergap] [Commons-l] Fwd: Photo of the Day on Wikimedia Commons

2011-05-18 Thread Fred Bauder
On May 18, 2011, at 12:47 PM, Sarah wrote: I did say something in the end, and an uninvolved admin left a note on talk asking that the remarks cease. And though he meant well, and I was and remain grateful to him for stepping in, he asked that they cease as a matter of courtesy to me.

Re: [Gendergap] Advice for BLP situation (possibly off-topic)

2011-05-11 Thread Fred Bauder
Hey all, Apologies if this isn't the appropriate list/discussion to post to; I learned a lot by following the last BLP discussion, so I'm hoping to get some advice here. It's a question that as a technology consultant I'm asked a lot, and I don't have the greatest answer... I have a

Re: [Gendergap] Advice for BLP situation (possibly off-topic)

2011-05-11 Thread Fred Bauder
Hi Deanna, There is some basic advice for people wishing to edit (or complain about) their ownbiographies here: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia:Notable_person_survival_kit Otherwise, drop me or some of the established women editors on this list a private note identifying the article,

Re: [Gendergap] Woman posting on Wikipedia about knitting, needs investigating

2011-04-14 Thread Fred Bauder
Fred, I agree with you. Especially with handkraft information, there won't be 'references'. You can't reference what your grandmother or great-grandmother taught you. Same is true with fairytales or folklore. I'd like to post some of the Irish tales my grandmother taught me. I haven't

Re: [Gendergap] Woman posting on Wikipedia about knitting, needs investigating

2011-04-13 Thread Fred Bauder
On Wed, Apr 13, 2011 at 13:35, Sarah Stierch sa...@sarahstierch.com wrote: Wow, the talk page is insane, and is one reason why I gave up in the beginning. I might take a stab on my own userspace to re-write this article. I'm somewhat addicted fixing crappy BLP's. Perhaps I'll send it your

Re: [Gendergap] What to do about sexism when we see it on WP?

2011-03-18 Thread Fred Bauder
However, I also do worry about double standards. For example, earlier somewhere someone suggested we visit http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ochre where a barebreasted woman was used to illustrate the use of it as a body paint in Africa. I made the point that I really would like to know if men

Re: [Gendergap] What to do about sexism when we see it on WP?

2011-03-17 Thread Fred Bauder
I saw an incident recently on WP that's fairly common, but it's not clear to me what we should do about it, if anything. A woman editor did something that a few male editors didn't like, and she was taken to task for it. In the course of the discussion, the Wikipedia biography of a woman was

Re: [Gendergap] Proposal: Forking gendergap: Main list for women and transgender, sublist for male supporters

2011-03-15 Thread Fred Bauder
I don't edit Wikipedia because I've never taken the time to learn the system and I'm afraid I'll screw up. I assume it would feel like making a big mistake in a newspaper and having the whole neighborhood scoff, and I think that becomes a part of my Wikipedia profile forever and ever. I'd

Re: [Gendergap] Proposal: Forking gendergap: Main list for women and transgender, sublist for male supporters

2011-03-15 Thread Fred Bauder
On 3/15/11 9:34 AM, Nicole Willson wrote: Lastly, I had a question about Fred's statement about rules. If following rules isn't that important in the beginning, how come I have only gotten feedback once about what I've done wrong with date formatting and never gotten a message about what I've

[Gendergap] The Coalface

2011-03-09 Thread Fred Bauder
http://en.korea.com/blog/blogs/wikipedia-project-groundbreaking-feminist-author-and-painter-na-hye-sok-gets-a-cleanup/

[Gendergap] Why women and wikis do mix...

2011-03-08 Thread Fred Bauder
On Signpost: https://secure.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/wiki/Wikipedia:Wikipedia_Signpost/2011-03-07/In_the_news http://lola-pr.blogspot.com/2011/03/why-women-wikis-do-mix.html Fred ___ Gendergap mailing list Gendergap@lists.wikimedia.org

Re: [Gendergap] the terms chicks and fellows; systemic bias noticeboard

2011-02-24 Thread Fred Bauder
Is it appropriate for the Foundation to refer to women as chicks and use the title fellow for staff positions?  I'm not adamantly opposed to either, but I am convinced we can do much better. On the issue of noticeboards, does anyone know of any actual reasons that any noticeboard has not

Re: [Gendergap] Women's issues noticeboard

2011-02-22 Thread Fred Bauder
On Tue, Feb 22, 2011 at 11:11 AM, Marc Riddell michaeldavi...@comcast.netwrote: What's wrong with drama, Steven? If the issue is creating a dramatic situation for people, how would you have them express it, neutrally? Since passion is the temperature of emotion, shouldn't we get a measure

Re: [Gendergap] fostering better communication on differences

2011-02-22 Thread Fred Bauder
Perhaps there are already adequate guidelines as well as resources regarding on line conflict and resolution, but one resource might be the Public Conversations Project in Cambridge which has all sorts of resources for better communications - they managed a six month online conversation with