Today I would have discussion on same subject on radioudaan.
agreed with ajay bhai and preeti mam

On 10/23/16, Vyas Gajendra <vyasgajen...@gmail.com> wrote:
> absolutely right mam .
> if we are free from prejudices and preferences , we can be as natural as
> water  that has no limitation or discrimination of main stream or isolation
> . water can flow anywhere .
> we should learn to delete the past from our computer of mind .
> sab ko gale se lagate chalo .
> meet the people and join wherever possible.
> gajendra
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> From: "Preeti Monga" <preeti.mo...@silver-linings.org>
> To: "'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning
> the disabled.'" <accessindia@accessindia.org.in>
> Sent: Sunday, October 23, 2016 6:36 AM
> Subject: Re: [AI] Abhinav Singh reports for the Statesman: Delhi University:
> Visually Impaired teacher seeks normal life partner
>
>
>> Very interesting! Why do we have to marry disability or non disability? We
>>
>> must not forget that we need to marry human beings! They can be disabled
>> or no9t! To find happiness in any relationship as in marriage, it is
>> important to have valus, intrests and values alined with each other. If
>> you want mainstreaming, then give value to the society  and be proactive
>> in mingling with  society, and you will soon find yourself mainstreamed!
>> And friends, we are already in the mainstream, because our families are
>> not all disabled! It is also largely in our own minds, we also keep away
>> from all mainstream activities and reject any opportunity to get out and
>> mingle, for we are ourselves ashamed and subconsciously worried about what
>>
>> people will say or think about our disability and therefore keep ourselves
>>
>> away from society, and get left out!
>>
>> So friends the world belongs to all of us; disabled or non disabled, so
>> get up and start mingling with all and get yourself into the mainstream!
>> Even people who do not have disabilities  get left out if they don’t make
>> the effort of becoming social from their side! They also get up and go
>> into society to participate, and believe you me, if they don't get out and
>>
>> make that effort, they too get excluded from  society! No society comes to
>>
>> your doorstep to drag you into the mainstream, you have to make the effort
>>
>> and bring value to others with whom you wish to connect and interact!
>>
>> Warmly
>> Preeti
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>> From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On
>> Behalf Of Ajay Minocha
>> Sent: Sunday, October 23, 2016 00:28
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>> the disabled.
>> Subject: Re: [AI] Abhinav Singh reports for the Statesman: Delhi
>> University: Visually Impaired teacher seeks normal life partner
>>
>> Seems to be just hiding his own discomfort behind so-called mainstreaming.
>>
>> On 10/21/16, avinash shahi <shahi88avin...@gmail.com> wrote:
>>> A visually impaired teacher of Delhi University has expressed his
>>> disillusionment at being unable to marry a physically 'normal' woman
>>> because of societal constraints.
>>> http://www.thestatesman.com/news/delhi/visually-impaired-teacher-seeks-normal-life-partner/169088.html
>>> He said marriage between disabled and normal persons is an 'effective'
>>> way to incorporate the differently abled into the mainstream and end
>>> discrimination. Yogesh Chaurasia, 42, an assistant professor of
>>> political science at DU's Maitreyi College is still unmarried as he
>>> has turned down several proposals of marrying differently abled girls
>>> in his quest to get a physically normal life partner. "If I marry, I
>>> will marry a normal girl," he stressed. Chaurasia said society acts
>>> with an 'orthodoxical' and 'prejudiced' mindset as it easily gives
>>> sanction to matrimonial ties between two normal persons but looks down
>>> upon marriage of a normal person with a disabled one.
>>>
>>> "I had vehemently refused to accept several proposals of marriage with
>>> physically disabled or visually impaired girls. I turned down many
>>> such proposals in the past and I am really annoyed at and bewildered
>>> by those who approach me with such proposals," said Yogesh. He said he
>>> has no reservations in marrying a physically disabled girl but wants
>>> to set an example that physical disability cannot be the cause of
>>> 'rejection' and 'neglect' of a person. He said there is no support
>>> from his family members either who also cannot think 'out of box',
>>> "Even my parents are of the view that I should marry a disabled girl,
>>> but it's my personal view that marriages between differently abled and
>>> normal persons will help in bringing Divyangs into mainstream of
>>> society," said Chaurasia.
>>>
>>> "Physically disabled persons are also human beings and have desires
>>> similar to those of normal persons. Sometimes I have a strong urge to
>>> have a life partner but I have diverted all my energy into academics,"
>>> said Yogesh. He said many 'normal' men pretend to be blind only to
>>> have girls sympathising with them. "Many normal persons pretend to be
>>> blind in metros , buses and public places and only look for
>>> opportunity to inappropriately touch or feel young girls who come to
>>> their aid out of sympathy, this has maligned the image of blind people
>>> and girls now look at all blind persons suspiciously”, he said.
>>> Sympathy, no love "Most people help us out of sympathy but there is no
>>> element of love in it. Sympathy cannot be misunderstood for love,"
>>> said the professor.
>>>
>>> "By sympathising with us you make us feel that as if we are some
>>> helpless creatures but we want to tell that we are also human beings
>>> who are desirous of love and not sympathy," said Yogesh. Another
>>> teacher said society should shun its prejudices and ould encourage
>>> those who want to marry 'out of box'. "In my view marriage between a
>>> disabled and normal person should be encouraged, as it will help in
>>> bringing them into mainstream and increase their acceptability," said
>>> DU teacher.
>>>
>>>
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>>> Doctoral student at Centre for Law and Governance JNU
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