Today I would have discussion on same subject on radioudaan. agreed with ajay bhai and preeti mam
On 10/23/16, Vyas Gajendra <vyasgajen...@gmail.com> wrote: > absolutely right mam . > if we are free from prejudices and preferences , we can be as natural as > water that has no limitation or discrimination of main stream or isolation > . water can flow anywhere . > we should learn to delete the past from our computer of mind . > sab ko gale se lagate chalo . > meet the people and join wherever possible. > gajendra > ----- Original Message ----- > From: "Preeti Monga" <preeti.mo...@silver-linings.org> > To: "'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning > the disabled.'" <accessindia@accessindia.org.in> > Sent: Sunday, October 23, 2016 6:36 AM > Subject: Re: [AI] Abhinav Singh reports for the Statesman: Delhi University: > Visually Impaired teacher seeks normal life partner > > >> Very interesting! Why do we have to marry disability or non disability? We >> >> must not forget that we need to marry human beings! They can be disabled >> or no9t! To find happiness in any relationship as in marriage, it is >> important to have valus, intrests and values alined with each other. If >> you want mainstreaming, then give value to the society and be proactive >> in mingling with society, and you will soon find yourself mainstreamed! >> And friends, we are already in the mainstream, because our families are >> not all disabled! It is also largely in our own minds, we also keep away >> from all mainstream activities and reject any opportunity to get out and >> mingle, for we are ourselves ashamed and subconsciously worried about what >> >> people will say or think about our disability and therefore keep ourselves >> >> away from society, and get left out! >> >> So friends the world belongs to all of us; disabled or non disabled, so >> get up and start mingling with all and get yourself into the mainstream! >> Even people who do not have disabilities get left out if they don’t make >> the effort of becoming social from their side! They also get up and go >> into society to participate, and believe you me, if they don't get out and >> >> make that effort, they too get excluded from society! No society comes to >> >> your doorstep to drag you into the mainstream, you have to make the effort >> >> and bring value to others with whom you wish to connect and interact! >> >> Warmly >> Preeti >> >> Preeti Monga - Chief Executive Officer >> >> >> Inspiring INCLUSION! Fostering DIGNITY! >> >> >> Mobile : 91 9871701646 >> Landline : 011 22781446 >> E-mail : preeti.mo...@silver-linings.org /preeti.mo...@gmail.com >> Website : www.silver-linings.org >> Our Services: Recruitment , Trainings- Unique Motivation Programmes, >> Diversity & Inclusion, Prevention of Sexual Harassment >> Connect With Us : >> >> >> >> -----Original Message----- >> From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On >> Behalf Of Ajay Minocha >> Sent: Sunday, October 23, 2016 00:28 >> To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning >> >> the disabled. >> Subject: Re: [AI] Abhinav Singh reports for the Statesman: Delhi >> University: Visually Impaired teacher seeks normal life partner >> >> Seems to be just hiding his own discomfort behind so-called mainstreaming. >> >> On 10/21/16, avinash shahi <shahi88avin...@gmail.com> wrote: >>> A visually impaired teacher of Delhi University has expressed his >>> disillusionment at being unable to marry a physically 'normal' woman >>> because of societal constraints. >>> http://www.thestatesman.com/news/delhi/visually-impaired-teacher-seeks-normal-life-partner/169088.html >>> He said marriage between disabled and normal persons is an 'effective' >>> way to incorporate the differently abled into the mainstream and end >>> discrimination. Yogesh Chaurasia, 42, an assistant professor of >>> political science at DU's Maitreyi College is still unmarried as he >>> has turned down several proposals of marrying differently abled girls >>> in his quest to get a physically normal life partner. "If I marry, I >>> will marry a normal girl," he stressed. Chaurasia said society acts >>> with an 'orthodoxical' and 'prejudiced' mindset as it easily gives >>> sanction to matrimonial ties between two normal persons but looks down >>> upon marriage of a normal person with a disabled one. >>> >>> "I had vehemently refused to accept several proposals of marriage with >>> physically disabled or visually impaired girls. I turned down many >>> such proposals in the past and I am really annoyed at and bewildered >>> by those who approach me with such proposals," said Yogesh. He said he >>> has no reservations in marrying a physically disabled girl but wants >>> to set an example that physical disability cannot be the cause of >>> 'rejection' and 'neglect' of a person. He said there is no support >>> from his family members either who also cannot think 'out of box', >>> "Even my parents are of the view that I should marry a disabled girl, >>> but it's my personal view that marriages between differently abled and >>> normal persons will help in bringing Divyangs into mainstream of >>> society," said Chaurasia. >>> >>> "Physically disabled persons are also human beings and have desires >>> similar to those of normal persons. Sometimes I have a strong urge to >>> have a life partner but I have diverted all my energy into academics," >>> said Yogesh. He said many 'normal' men pretend to be blind only to >>> have girls sympathising with them. "Many normal persons pretend to be >>> blind in metros , buses and public places and only look for >>> opportunity to inappropriately touch or feel young girls who come to >>> their aid out of sympathy, this has maligned the image of blind people >>> and girls now look at all blind persons suspiciously”, he said. >>> Sympathy, no love "Most people help us out of sympathy but there is no >>> element of love in it. Sympathy cannot be misunderstood for love," >>> said the professor. >>> >>> "By sympathising with us you make us feel that as if we are some >>> helpless creatures but we want to tell that we are also human beings >>> who are desirous of love and not sympathy," said Yogesh. Another >>> teacher said society should shun its prejudices and ould encourage >>> those who want to marry 'out of box'. "In my view marriage between a >>> disabled and normal person should be encouraged, as it will help in >>> bringing them into mainstream and increase their acceptability," said >>> DU teacher. >>> >>> >>> -- >>> Avinash Shahi >>> Doctoral student at Centre for Law and Governance JNU >>> >>> >>> Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility >>> of >>> mobile phones / Tabs on: >>> http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in >>> >>> >>> Search for old postings at: >>> http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ >>> >>> To unsubscribe send a message to >>> accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in >>> with the subject unsubscribe. >>> >>> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, >>> please >>> visit the list home page at >>> http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in >>> >>> >>> Disclaimer: >>> 1. 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