To: <accessindia@accessindia.org.in> Sent: Tuesday, January 03, 2012 2:41 AM Subject: Re: [AI] Some more questions about dating
Hi all, Steve, if you're right, then why do we have a thread about marrying a sighted person in this group? And, don't forget, that thread has more than 60 posts. There was also recently a thread about socializing which also had more than 50 posts. However, I'd like to request all the members to stick to the topic, which, unfortunately, they're not doing. Mr. Asudani, Your comment about all 3 of us going on a date was really hilarious. What I meant was, should I ask my driver to leave me to the place of our date, or should I go there with her? Similarly, should I ask my driver to take me back to my vehicle after the date, or should I ask her to drop me? On 1/3/12, Phen Varghese <phenvargh...@gmail.com> wrote:It is not related to you sir. I had given a reply to Mr. Chetan. If it is like that then why did you give the reply like that to Chetan earlier when he asked about google groups and yahoo groups? This is a mailing group for all.all can see the mail send to each other and the reply given to each other.So mind it. On 1/3/12, Asudani, Rajesh <rajeshasud...@rbi.org.in> wrote:Keep in mind, whose message you are replying to. I had never asked about relative merits of groups... -----Original Message----- From: accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in[mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Phen VargheseSent: Tuesday, January 03, 2012 11:42 AM To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in Subject: Re: [AI] Some more questions about dating The best way is to make a google group. On 1/3/12, Asudani, Rajesh <rajeshasud...@rbi.org.in> wrote:Exercise temperance or else I am really a bad tempered person. Don't adopt a patronizing discourse. Keep to your limits. -----Original Message----- From: accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Phen Varghese Sent: Tuesday, January 03, 2012 10:33 AM To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in Subject: Re: [AI] Some more questions about dating We'll see about that. Let's see what the moderator says. On 1/3/12, Asudani, Rajesh <rajeshasud...@rbi.org.in> wrote:Dear Mr. Phen Varghese I hope moderator has not delegated his discretion about relevance of discussion in this group. So, don't use imperative sentences in your communications... -----Original Message----- From: accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Phen Varghese Sent: Tuesday, January 03, 2012 10:23 AM To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in Subject: Re: [AI] Some more questions about dating Here we expect discussions related to accessibility issues and new inventions of technological gadgets. If you want to discus something related to dating or marriage then creat a google group for that and start discussing. RGDS, Phen Varghese On 1/3/12, Asudani, Rajesh <rajeshasud...@rbi.org.in> wrote:With a sighted person? No Mohit No. Do you trio want to go on a date? Absolutely a counterproductive idea.. Regarding assisting with mobility, sensitize her, and the best way to sensitize is the actual interaction, which dating would offer.If even then your friend is reluctant to assist, forgo the idea of anylong term relationship with her, as she is not relevantly taking cognizance of your disability. This is the precise idea behind dating, that we get to know each other... -----Original Message----- From: accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in[mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of Mohit ShahShah Sent: Monday, January 02, 2012 6:20 PM To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in Subject: [AI] Some more questions about dating Hi all, A few days ago, I had created a thread about dating. I really got some wonderful and informative replies. However, some posts by some members were off-topic, so the moderator decided to close the thread. Hence, I decided to create a new thread for asking my questions. I'd like to assure the moderator that all my questions are strictly related to blindness. And I'd also like to request you all to stick to the topic so that we can have a meaningful discussion. Now, let's get to the topic.After reading your replies, I have decided to ask her (my friend) out.However, I have a couple of questions.Do you believe that I should go on the date with the help of a sightedperson? If I do, then she might feel that she's being scrutinised. And, if I don't, then she might feel embarrassed and awkward to help me to move around. So, what should I do? I'd like to ask one more question. What can I do to ensure that she doesn't feel awkward going out with me? People are anyway a bit reluctant when they initially start going out together, and I believe that the problem will be far more serious especially when one of the persons is visually impaired. So, I'd really like to hear what you guys have to say about this. All your suggestions, tips, and views would be really appreciated. 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