thanks so much mam for your advice. no burden is heavier than we can deal with. I wish my friend the best of life's choices thanks
On 5/15/14, Preeti Monga <preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in> wrote: > Yes, every situation needs to be dealt with and sometimes, it is that you > need to wait for the right time. But only once the right time is there, he > should make his move. > > Fear should not stop him. I know it is hard but life is that way anyway? > Only some people seem to have things run smoothly but there too there are > challenges. > Warmly > Preeti > > Preeti Monga > Director > > > > Mobile: +91 9871701646 > Landline: 011 22781446 > E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in > Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org > Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training > –Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting – Corporate > ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying > workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and > Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. > > We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete > customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. > > > > -----Original Message----- > From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf > Of Farhana Banu > Sent: Thursday, May 15, 2014 2:25 PM > To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning > the disabled. > Cc: shivajinampa...@gmail.com > Subject: Re: [AI] urgent help needed on helping one of our visually impaired > friend come out of his home as his family is torturing him a lot. > > dear preeti mam and access indians, I agree that > we are the ones to carve our future and it works out only when we are > strong. In this case, my friend is warned to think not just for > himself but for every member of his family or else, the family members > would be murdered. He wants to study more and get a job and then get > married with his love but his family is preasuring him to get married > to some one else of the family choice as soon as possible. they want > him to sit at home and do nothing. his dad is really violent as he > beat every one because of the matter using plastic pipes and chair and > the chair broke. He can move out but he has two younger brothers who > are also blind and is scared for their lives. he thinks of waiting > till june till their school starts and then take a move. its really > terrorising not just for him but for those who knows the situation. > thanks so much for the platform and thanks for your support > Farhana to > On 5/15/14, Preeti Monga <preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in> wrote: >> Relationship with your own families can never actually break. It is only >> that family members try to control you if you see closely. Then once >> you >> have taken the steps that you want to, or the steps that you think are >> correct for yourself, the controlling family also falls into place! So >> that >> should not hold you back. And unless you take some decisions and move >> forward, how will you know if they are right or wrong? If it is correct >> and >> it works, great... otherwise, you can then take the next steps and get >> out >> of the wrong decision and begin again! >> How does one know without eating a particular fruit or anything new, >> weather >> it is going to be of what taste? You have to try for yourself. This way is >> much better than just sitting and crying about everything that you are >> not >> allowed to do! But, if you examine carefully, to sit around and cry is the >> easiest one to do! In taking action and doing what you need to, or want to >> do, it takes hard work and fear of the unknown keeps you in place and >> just >> cry. So if anyone is wanting to change things for the better, it is not >> good >> to sit around and blame others and ask for advice, you need to get up and >> do >> something about it. Whatever is our situation, is all our own doing! We >> creat our own reality and this is something not many wish to accept! And >> therefore, we are usually living as victoms and not as free humans! We are >> only spending our lives crying, complaining, blaming and seeking people to >> sympathize with our situation and get out of taking the hardwork road >> to >> a great life! >> Maybe these thoughts help? >> Preeti >> >> Preeti Monga >> Director >> >> >> >> Mobile: +91 9871701646 >> Landline: 011 22781446 >> E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in >> Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org >> Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training >> –Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting – >> Corporate >> ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying >> workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and >> Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. >> >> We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete >> customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. >> >> >> -----Original Message----- >> From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On >> Behalf >> Of Amar Jain >> Sent: Thursday, May 15, 2014 11:08 AM >> To: accessindia >> Subject: Re: [AI] urgent help needed on helping one of our visually >> impaired >> friend come out of his home as his family is torturing him a lot. >> >> I see it as a ppurely a personal issue. How much that person himself >> is assertive of his rights, what position he is in, economically and >> otherwise in terms of awareness and knowledge, are crutial factors to >> tackle this issue. >> >> While marrying a girl of your choice may be equally important, but >> both the families cannot be ignored altogether of course unless you >> are ok with the fact that your relations with both the families are >> completely spoiled due to your own decision. And I am not sure whether >> today people really understand the true meaning of love or has it just >> become a fassion to commit oneself in relationships and then announce >> break-ups. >> >> Anyways, if he is not in the strong position (which appears so from your >> email), >> then some pressure groups or mere simple policing can at least get him >> out of the physical torture. >> And then find your own way in terms of building an understanding >> within your and the girl's family, have some earning prospects in mind >> so that you can support yourself and your partner if not family. >> >> But truly I doubt anyone would be willing to help beyond giving a >> general guidance, because its an entirely personal issue which has got >> nothing to do with disability whatsoever. >> >> Regards, >> Amar Jain. >> >> -- >> Amar Jain. >> Website: www.amarjain.com >> >> >> >> Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of >> mobile phones / Tabs on: >> http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessind >> ia.org.in >> >> >> Search for old postings at: >> http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ >> >> To unsubscribe send a message to >> accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in >> with the subject unsubscribe. >> >> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, >> please >> visit the list home page at >> http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in >> >> >> Disclaimer: >> 1. 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