Friends Somewhere in the original article, it is very rightly written that sex with a commercial sex worker is not a very fullfilling experience for a disabled person and that the act is over quick and fast. I think, most of the times, for persons with disability like us, its an urge to be accepted as who we are unconditionally and being able to express ourselves is the main requirement. Sadly, the social constructs around us does not even have any clue that we are equally sexual beings and have the right to express ourselves fully. In our country, where sex is not legal, finding a commercial worker itself is very risky and sometimes impossible.
Each one of us whether disabled or not have the same feelings with respect to hunger, thirst or sex. Its absolutely fine to honour the body's feelings Merely brushing aside this urge on the pretext of our culture (which no one really knows what it is) and waiting for marriage (which seems to be a tough proposition and comes with its own associated costs and challenges) is further eroding our consciousness. No one needs to bother too much about culture as it is changing with every passing generation and would take care of itself. I wish if we also lived in an age of free sexual expression and gratification. These are just my reflections and I am not willing to argue with anybody in the list on what is right and wrong a acceptable social behaviour. Cheers Jairam Register at the dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_accessindia.org.in Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please visit the list home page at http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in Disclaimer: 1. Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, reflect the thinking of the person sending the mail and AI in no way relates itself to its veracity; 2. AI cannot be held liable for any commission/omission based on the mails sent through this mailing list..
