Its sad for me too to see how members can be so personal when challenging someone's views as if they should dictate their tastes and knowledge. As a senior of this group I admire when someone put forward his thoughts with substantiated background. Now anyone can have his own opinions which im sure will differ with other members but its not mature to start bashing each sentence, point by point and worst when its targeting a specific member.
This group is highly appreciated by our idol A R Rahman, please learn from his humility and love for everyone without putting barriers of language and spreading love thru his music. Learn from his wise words for tolerance... If someone here cannot be a good disciple of thalaiva, may he remain away from this group. We want only heathly debates!!! Ichord dont let one member shatter our excitement in reading your excitements about rahman's music. Gopal bro, can you do anything about members who are going too far when targeting other members?? Niven --- In arrahmanfans@yahoogroups.com, Prasad Varma <svspva...@...> wrote: > > I am sure several members will agree with me on how substantial your posts > have been to the group. > > As a lay person with no training in music, I have benefited immensely from > your thorough analysis and insights into AR's music > > Please do not let your enthusiasm and exuberance curbed by one odd posts > > This is an official ARR fan group and I don't think there can be a more > appropriate forum to express your unbridled respect and devotion for ARR's > music. > > This does not mean that there should not be any healthy disagreements. > > I would like to thank Arun, Gomzy and Wired Beats and other members for being > patient and respectful in their posts despite our strong disagreements in > opinion.. > > > > > > > ________________________________ > From: ichord <purev...@...> > To: arrahmanfans@yahoogroups.com > Sent: Saturday, September 12, 2009 6:07:15 PM > Subject: [arr] Dissection of my posts > > > I have recently felt that some of my posts have been dissected and challenged > quite heavily by a member here, which I do not appreciate. I'm here to share > my thoughts and feelings about AR's music and my enthusiasm for Blue has been > high. I've expressed a lot of happiness and excitement about this here in > this group, but somehow, this appears to be bothering someone. I kindly > request to stop analyzing and dissecting my posts as if to challenge me on > every word or thought that I express here. It's not welcomed by me. Thank > you. > > I welcome healthy discussion and debate like I've had with Arun, but > ultimately, we agreed to disagree. That's fine. But, to take a personal tone > and challenge me for no reason when all I'm doing is gushing with excitement > is not what I want. >
