I can completely understand the reaction to moderate due to the heated back and forth that can happen on boards like this.
however, it puts such an added disconnect between people. email and posting is already disconnected. it has taken me years to realize how un-ideal electronic communication is. i have gotten into lots of trouble and it just doesn't happen that much to me in more personal communication. well it does happen but its different. we are adults, we need to take things less seriously and kindly call one another out on ugly or mean behavior. (that does not include passionate disagreements) but we also NEED to be free to express without the interference of a moderator. my sense of this board is that there is a genuine fondness among the people who post. and respect. human beings swarm in chaos most of the time. its fun when its all love and happiness, but we got a lot of shit to work out with one another. please resist the impulse to moderate. we've got enough control of expression and discourse going in this country. ------------------------------------ Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/AsburyPark/ <*> Your email settings: Individual Email | Traditional <*> To change settings online go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/AsburyPark/join (Yahoo! ID required) <*> To change settings via email: mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/