As I have seen in Delhi for the last 12 years, the punjabi weddings are
truely depicted in these films.
Mridul
>From: "Anjan K. Nath" <
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>To: "umesh sharma" <
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>Subject: Re: [Assam] Monsoon Wedding and wife beating--old
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>Date: Fri, 29 Apr 2005 11:38:56 +0800
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>I liked "Monsoon Wedding" and especially Mr.
Dubey. I wonder why all three movies by the Indian directors,
"Bend it Like Beckham," "Bride and Prejudice," and "Monsoon
Wedding," have the same theme of marriage?
>
>And, are Punjabi weddings the way they are depicted in the
movies?
>
>AKN
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> From: umesh sharma
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> Subject: [Assam] Monsoon Wedding and wife
beating--old images of India
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>
> Hi,
>
> I just started watching this movie by Mira
Nair - not as bad as Gurinder Chaddha's it seems - I like that comedian
wedding organizer - who was tyhe scare crow character in the movie "Run" -
of Bachchan Jr. where I had to run to the police station in the middle of
the film -the police called on my mobile- to save my skin - for someone
had complained to police that I was begging through press (advts) to
purportedly go to Harvard.
>
> I'd like to see the face of the retired Chief
Engineer ,Mr Chandra from Raipur - if he could see me now - really at
Harvard.
>
> The movie - is going as suspected - the
corrupted Burgousie face of "elite" Indian yuppydom.
> And I suspect this is how most of Western
youth view Indians who land up at places like Harvard. Even a so called
school time "friend" is here - who doesn't wish to be reminded that only
elites or roayal from Jaipur or India do not land at Harvard.
>
> Sometimes while cleaning classrooms I hit upon
interesting seminars. Earlier one was by Indian Ambassador to US Mr Sen -
I was waiting to clean the room, if they chose to leave. This Tuesday in
the same room (Fong Audi) three women presented a documentary of Pluralism
- supposedly on different relgions. It turned out that Shamita - the
Indian (Hindu) was highlighting about wife beating - ofcourse blaming the
males.
>
> My comment made her become pensive. I said
that I am (name, Harvard GSE etc) a son of a wife beater, when
we grew we realised it is not good and made my father stop it - and how
somehow it led to some female luring away my father from our family. So
South Asian sons should be trained to take up cudgles on behalf of their
moters. Ms Shamita had no answer to that. She started making
defensive statements that she doesn't want the family to break but the
hand to stop. Well No risk No gain.
>
> i think she didn't like the idea of a son
standing upto his father - again she wanted tradition to continue - you
can't have everything. If u want west - have it in full!!
>
> Am I wrong?
>
> Umesh
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