Thanks Mridul, your comments are very helpful.
> Further, its a duty on your part to contribute every which> way you can 
> towards the development of your motherland for making you the> person you 
> are. You owe it to your mother land.
I agree. I think all NRAs try to do that in some fashion or another.
> I think you people constitute the top strata of Assamese intellectuals,> 
> there is no denying of this fact. 
Thanks for that vote of confidence. But do you think that some of us'know' this 
and so sermonize, maybe unknowingly? :-)
But, seriously, many are just trying to do their small part, and indoing so are 
at times perceived as making comments over the top.
> Further, as I have opined earlier, many of you may also contribute in the> 
> form of a regular column in the local newspapers of Assam, which I feel will> 
> serve your purpose in a more effective way. You can also guide the> 
> students/jobseekers from Assam, who are interested to go abroad to find a> 
> way out.
That is a good idea. Some netters write 'letters to the editor' andthere have 
been some columns by NRAs over the years.
>But, if you fight among  yourself on trivial issues or take on eachother 
>>personally, trying to prove  your intellectual superiority(which I have seen 
>taking >place in AssamNet  quite a few times), theonlookers will not take it 
>in a good >taste.
That they do (I mean quarrel on trivial issues). But most of the timeit is just 
friendly banter. And, I think, many of us are able toseparate 'quarrels' on the 
net from any personal friendship.
 >Besides, I think it'll be  worthy to mention that creation of thesite 
 >'Assam.org' is >a sincere &  fruitful effort on your part.
That I agree wholeheartedly. Thanks to the 'founding fathers' ofAssam.org. They 
have done a great job. Over the years, the net hasbecome a wonderful place for 
exchange of ideas, and information.Sometimes I am amazed at the issued 
discussed here. I once show ourdiscussion threads to a friend of mine, and was 
impressed at thelevel, and passion of the discussions.
--Ram







On 6/2/05, mridul bhuyan <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:> > > Dear Ram,> > It's 
indeed a good question and a point of introspection. Eventhough it> seems that 
some may not agree to my points, I'll try to be impartial. > > Should NRAs/NRIs 
have an obligation or responsibility to criticize or> >advice, given that many 
are no longer vested in any developmental or> >political process? Most of us 
are not Lakshmi Mittals to invest back> >in the desh.> I feel in addition to 
obligation & responsibility, you have every right to> criticise or advise the 
people of Assam on its way to progress. Investments> may not be only in the 
form of money but in other forms such as guidance,> motivation, pointing out 
the scope for further improvement & even lauding> the performances. Further, 
its a duty on your part to contribute every which> way you can towards the 
development of your motherland for making you the> person you are. You owe it 
to your mother land.> > Yes, many have homes (for inve!
stment property or for ultimate> >retirement) or send money to relatives, ( 
which are personal issues)> This is also another way of contributing although 
its a personal issue, but> the contribution of NRIs/NRAs is substantial.>  > 
>What do people in India/Assam think? Do they feel we ought not have> >any 
business telling them how to run things (even if things aren't> >right)> Then 
there is this other salvo: "Constructive Criticism". This term> >can actually 
be lobbed at anyone you don't think is on your side. Its> >easy to do, and 
really puts the other person on the defensive. Its a> >good means to deflect a 
discussion, but in realty, its difficult to> >find criticisms that are 
'constructive' and palatable to all.> I think you people constitute the top 
strata of Assamese intellectuals,> there is no denying of this fact. Your 
brothers & sisters in Assam will> always look upon you in the time of their 
distress. But, if you fight among> yourself on trivial issues or take on eac!
h other personally, trying to prove> your intellectual superiority (which I 
have seen taking place in AssamNet> quite a few times), the onlookers will not 
take it in a good taste.>  > Further, as I have opined earlier, many of you may 
also contribute in the> form of a regular column in the local newspapers of 
Assam, which I feel will> serve your purpose in a more effective way. You can 
also guide the> students/jobseekers from Assam, who are interested to go abroad 
to find a> way out.>  > You'll always find people pelting stones at you, which 
doesn't in any way> mean that you'll change course. Keep it up, you people are 
doing a good job.> Try to engage more people residing in Assam. Besides, I 
think it'll be> worthy to mention that creation of the site 'Assam.org' is a 
sincere &> fruitful effort on your part.>  > Regards>  > Mridul> > >From: Ram 
Sarangapani <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>> >Reply-To: Ram Sarangapani <[EMAIL 
PROTECTED]>> >To: Assam <[email protected]>> >Subject: [A!
ssam] Do NRAs sermonize?> >Date: Wed, 1 Jun 2005 23:32:32 -0500> > >> 
>NRAs/NRIs are often criticized for preaching or sermonizing how> >affairs 
ought to be conducted back home (Assam/India). While> >discussing this issue, 
with a good friend of mine, several things> >surfaced:> >> >Should NRAs/NRIs 
have an obligation or responsibility to criticize or> >advice, given that many 
are no longer vested in any developmental or> >political process? Most of us 
are not Lakshmi Mittals to invest back> >in the desh.> >> >Yes, many have homes 
(for investment property or for ultimate> >retirement) or send money to 
relatives, ( which are personal issues)> >but other than that, they have really 
left the country for good and in> >all probability will stay overseas 
permanently.> >> >Many of our discussions are based on second-hand information, 
so do we> >become Monday night quarterbacks or armchair philosophers?> >> >What 
do people in India/Assam think? Do they feel we ought not have> >any bu!
siness telling them how to run things (even if things aren't> >right)> >> >On 
the flip side, why should we not have a say so in what is happening> >  back 
home? Aren't we at least contributing ideas (if any)?> >> >Reminds me of 
Naipaul, who thought (well before his first visit to> >India) that he would be 
welcomed with open arms and a red carpet> >thrown. But he was really 
disappointed when no one really cared where> >he came from.> >He also goes into 
this invisible thread that made him want to visit> >India , even though he was 
the first to do so after several> >generations. Interestingly, many West 
Indians identify themselves as> >'originally from India"  (or Indian 
immigrants)even though only their> >forefathers were the immigrants, and the 
present generation have very> >little to do with India.> >> >Then there is this 
other salvo: "Constructive Criticism". This term> >can actually be lobbed at 
anyone you don't think is on your side. Its> >easy to do, and really puts the !
other person on the defensive. Its a> >good means to deflect a discussion, but 
in realty, its difficult to> >find criticisms that are 'constructive' and 
palatable to all.> >> >What do netters think? What do you think Mridul, from 
the vantage> >point you have from Delhi?> >> >--Ram> >> 
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