I appreciated the information and understand the problem. I have no solutions 
other than to keep everything private then I would not be able to relatives. 
Thanks again. Like always your explanation is so clear and complete.

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From: Cheri Mello
Sent: Wednesday, January 24, 2018 10:29 AM
To: Azores Genealogy
Subject: Re: [AZORES-Genealogy] Re: Ancestry

When someone DNA tests, they sign a paper saying they are willing to be matched 
within the FTDNA system. So once a person logs into their match page, those 
matches are meant for their eyes and their eyes only (or the proxy managing the 
kit). Many people are ignorant of manners, ethics, etc. They think it's 
absolutely OK to show something that was meant for them PERSONALLY to the 
world. No, that's NOT okay. Same thing as taking a screen shot of your bank 
account and publishing it on social media. Why not do that? We know why.
If you have some ideas for solutions, send them to me and I'll bring them to 
the attention of FTDNA.
The screen shot that I show repeatedly of my dad's page shows only 4 people: 
Me, cousin Nancy, cousin Marie, and cousin Altino. I have emails from them 
saying it's OK to show their name and picture. The next person I do NOT have 
permission. So hence my cutoff at 4 people. It's enough anyways.
As for the site protecting the information (DNA), only those with the kit 
number and password have access to the DNA, same as your online banking. If the 
password is shared and people think it's OK to share DNA with the world, well, 
then that's not a problem with the DNA site, it's a problem with the person who 
shared a password with someone who is completely ignorant about what is 
ethically proper to do with someone's DNA. Same thing as sharing your banking 
password. If you shared the password with me and I took a screen shot of your 
account and posted it on social media, it's not the bank's problem. Our problem 
is that we share DNA (unlike bank accounts) and genealogists don't understand 
the line between sharing and violating privacy. 
Again, if you have any ideas for FTDNA, let me know.


Cheri Mello
Listowner, Azores-Gen
Researching: São Miguel island: Vila Franca, Ponta Garca, Ribeira Quente, 
Ribeira das Tainhas, Achada

On Tue, Jan 23, 2018 at 11:25 AM, <doreencaet...@gmail.com> wrote:
Thanks Cheri. I was not questioning the FTDNA but is sounds like others may 
have been questioning their privacy.  This has been and interesting topic and I 
do have another question or concern. On other groups I see people posting the 
match pages(screen shots) from FTDNA. I do not mind the person matching getting 
the info but posting it on a social media seems like an exposure to me. So it 
makes me uncomfortable since I try to honor my relatives rights and protect 
their identity information. In the past I tried to use Genmatch. I had problems 
so I just let it go. I’m constantly being asked to post my information. I see 
other people posting the numbers and wonder about the sites ability to protect 
the information. Can any one provide me with insight? Maybe this should be a 
new topic?
 
 
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From: Cheri Mello
Sent: Sunday, January 21, 2018 9:19 AM
To: Azores Genealogy
Subject: Re: [AZORES-Genealogy] Re: Ancestry
 
About FTDNA, sorry that's not true. If you want your tree private on FTDNA, you 
can mark it completely private. Here's a completely private tree from FTDNA:

Here's the same tree, share with matches only but the living private:

 
FTDNA does, indeed, give you privacy controls.
 
So, if you want your tree private, do NOT upload it to ANY cloud based site 
(Ancestry, Family Search, My Heritage, etc). DON'T DNA test. Just let your tree 
live on your computer only and share with NO ONE. Only then will your tree 
remain private. That's really the only way to keep something truly private.  
Cheri


Cheri Mello
Listowner, Azores-Gen
Researching: São Miguel island: Vila Franca, Ponta Garca, Ribeira Quente, 
Ribeira das Tainhas, Achada
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