Rekans, Saya memiliki artikel tentang bagaimana mengatasi rasa takut pada anak (English) dalam 3 bagian, semoga berguna NO MORE BOGEYMEN B Y J E F F R E Y L . B R O W N , M . D . MOST PARENTS understand that fears are a normal part of a child's development and that parents SHOULD be protectors for their children. So, when dealing with these fears, the goal is not to simply make them go away but to use them to teach a child how to cope with stressful situations and how to determine when to really be afraid. After all, fears are an important tool that we all use to avoid danger. Whereas in the past it was common to simply ignore a child's fears or brush them aside, today, the more common mistake is to give too much attention to fears. The parent's own anxiety causes her to talk too much. And too much talking causes the message to be lost and may make the child more nervous. Even worse, the child learns that acting afraid (without actually being afraid) is a sure way to get her parent's attention. As a general rule, the younger the child is, the less talking his parent should do. Finding the right way to address a child's worries without giving too much attention to them takes a little practice, but the extra effort is very worthwhile. ===== __________________________________________________ Do You Yahoo!? Bid and sell for free at http://auctions.yahoo.com Kunjungi: http://www.balita-anda.indoglobal.com "Untuk mereka yang mendambakan anak balitanya tumbuh sehat & cerdas" ------------------------------------------------------------------------ Etika berinternet, kirim email ke: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Berhenti berlangganan, e-mail ke: [EMAIL PROTECTED] EMERGENCY ONLY! Jika kesulitan unsubscribe, email: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Panduan Menulis Email yang Efektif http://hhh.indoglobal.com/email/ http://pencarian-informasi.or.id/ - Solusi Pencarian Informasi di Internet