Denise
Berners are awesome family pets. I too have boys, but waited until their young teens to comitt to an animal (This way they can take him for a walk, too in addition to brushing) OUr boy is loving and gentle, but no shrinking violet and would certainly be too much for small guys like yours. They can be really big animals (mine is around 115 at this time) with minds of their own. They also require vigorous exercise to keep them happy and healthy. I don't know much about their temperment vs goldens. Esta Dalsass