PARENTS ARE PRECIOUS!!
This was narrated by an IAF pilot at
a Seminar recently on Human Relations :
Venkatesh Balasubramaniam (who works for IIT) describes how his gesture
of booking an air ticket for his father, his maiden
flight, brought forth a rush of emotions and made him (Venkatesh)
realize that how much we all take for granted when it comes to our
parents.
My parents left for our native place on Thursday and we went to the
airport to see them off. In fact, my father had never
traveled by air before, so I just took this opportunity to make him
experience the same. In spite of being asked to book tickets by train, I got
them tickets on Jet Airways. The moment I handed over the tickets
to him, he was surprised to see that I had booked them by air. The
excitement was very apparent on his face, waiting for the time of
travel. Just like a school boy, he was preparing himself on that day
and we all went to the airport, right from using the trolley for his luggage,
the baggage check-in and asking for a window seat and waiting
restlessly for the security check-in to happen. He was thoroughly
enjoying himself and I, too, was overcome with joy watching him
experience all these things.
As they were about to go in for the security check-in, he walked up to
me with tears in his eyes and thanked me. He became very emotional and it was
not as if I had done something great but the fact that this meant a great deal
to him. When he said thanks, I told him there was no need to thank me. But
later, thinking about the entire incident, I looked back at my life. As a
child, how many dreams our parents have made come true. Without understanding
the financial situation, we ask for cricket bats, dresses, toys, outings, etc.
Irrespective of their affordability, they have catered to all our needs. Did we
ever think about the sacrifices they had to make to accommodate many of our
wishes? Did we ever say thanks for all that they have done for us? Same way,
today when it comes to our children, we always think that we should put them in
a good school. Regardless of the amount of donation, we will ensure that we
will have to give the child the best, theme parks, toys, etc. But we tend to
forget that our parents have sacrificed a lot for our sake to see us happy, so
it is our responsibility to ensure that their dreams are realized and what they
failed to see when they were young. It is our responsibility to ensure that
they experience all those and their life is complete.
Many times, when my parents had asked me some questions, I have
actually answered back without patience. When my daughter asks me something, I
have been very polite in answering. Now I realize how they would have felt at
those moments. Let us realize that old age is a second childhood and
just as we take care of our children, the same attention and same care
needs to be given to our parents and elders. Rather than my dad saying thank
you to me, I would want to say sorry for making him wait so long for this small
dream. I do realize how much he has sacrificed for my sake and I will do my
best to give the best possible attention to all their wishes.
Just because they are old does not mean that they will have to give up
everything and keep sacrificing for their grandchildren also. They have wishes,
too.
Take care of your parents. THEY ARE PRECIOUS.
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