On Sun, Jun 15, 2003 at 03:22:08PM -0700, Jan Coffey wrote: > You can see how some people would find offensive what other do to be > curtious. Can you not extrapolate from that point?
Can you not see that encouraging threats and harrassment is a bad policy? I'm not sure why you assume you are the only one who can see things from Jeroen's perspective. I think I can, and probably others here can too. But understanding his point of view doesn't mean I don't think he needs to change his behavior towards people here. His behavior is anti-social in the extreme, which I could actually tolerate if that were all it was, but he also made real-life threats and posted people's contact information (despite their requests not to) in a way that encouraged harrassment. Letting him manipulate people into getting his way by threatening and harrassing others is NOT the way to help him change. That would actually encourage the behavior. Have you ever seen a parent who gives in to a child whenever the child throws a temper-tantrum? Have you noticed how the problem then gets worse? -- "Erik Reuter" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> http://www.erikreuter.net/ _______________________________________________ http://www.mccmedia.com/mailman/listinfo/brin-l
