[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
I'm sorry that I was unclear about that. It is how I percieved the actions as I felt were taken against me. It's not what was actually happening that made me go ballistic, but the lack of information about it that did it. And I feel that that had to do with a serious lack of transparency. Afterwards Julia apologised and I accepted the appology. BUT ...Sonja said:
Shees indeed. I'm still wondering what all this gall's got to do
with MY complaint. I'm my own person and I think I've earned my
stripes on this list for being an earnest, concerned and carefull
poster. Thus this, your behaviour towards _me_ is totally
unwarrented and completely undeserved.
I don't recall Sonja ever saying anything that might justify her messages being moderated for any reason other than having subscribed a new address. If she has been put on moderation for any reason other than this, I too would like to know when and why, and I'd also like to know if anybody else is being covertly moderated.
Rich
...at the time it felt really very bad especially since the rational part of the explanation came from Julia, not Nick. I eventually took it in good faith, but considering the whole of the picture I'm getting now, I am seriously questioning myself whether that was a wise decision, seen the animosity toward me in all of Nick's responses that is. And not only this time around. I'm not one to hold a grudge easily but I never forget either.
As a result of this whole moderation mess because of spoofing, and a few other less nice surprises like not being able to subscribe a new adress, without explaination, a few off remarks against my person. It's starting to add up in my mind. For a while now I've been filtering brin-l for moderated posts, so that is how I now automatically know when people are moderated, including me. I'm suspicious about it and I have questioned moderation decisions off-list before, and always got nice and polite answers.... FROM JULIA, never from Nick.
So after all this, I now have to say that the whole incident at the time seriously did stop me from posting for a very long while. And call me crazy, but at the moment I really don't feel all that welcome here anymore. No and I'm not fishing for compliments, it's just how I feel about the list. Or should I say the listowner.
Sonja :o(
GCU: I still reserve the right to be critical, even if the list owner hates it.
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