Ron wrote:

> So ... social engineering, in a way that stake's a caller's reputation.
>

The engineer is an ancient, archetypal figure.  The engineer is the one who
makes things "work."

I am comfortable with that title.

Ron also wrote:

> Fair enough. I can see how that can be valuable if that's one's goal.
>

The way I see it, all callers are deeply involved in social engineering.
Some of them recognize it, take responsibility for it, and work to become
better at it.  Others don't.  That makes a difference.  Making the dancing
"work" seems, to me, to be at the heart of what I do as a caller.  If a
dance falls apart it will not be serving the goal of anyone.  That's part
of the beauty of contra dance.  Integrating the first-timers is possibly
the most effective strategy for making sure the dances do not fall apart.
Everyone has a stake in that goal.

Ron then wrote:

> It's better than shadow dances where you have more time with your shadow
> than your partner - that's a personal gripe of mine as a dancer.
> Follow-up question: Should a caller announce it as, essentially, a mixer
> with a trail-buddy, and/or are there distinct pros / cons for / against
> doing so?
>

Considering that the dancers have no opportunity to choose their shadow it
does come across as a bit "heavy-handed" to assign you a more significant
"other" than your selected partner.  I don't consider it to be as bad as,
say, calling a mixer without announcing it in advance. I'm not sure it
would be worth the effort to explain what you are talking about in an
announcement about a "shadow" dance with a "special" shadow.  Probably best
to call such dances only rarely.

My philosophy is to give the dancers as much information as I can and trust
in them to make social decisions.  I never try to "trick" the dancers into
doing anything.  I think those kind of "gambits" and "ploys" are corrosive
to the caller's relationship with the dancers.  I let the dancers take the
lead in whatever social engineering we need to make the evening work.  If I
see something that will help the dancers to make the evening "work" better
I will assume the support of the dancers and try to give them the
information they need to work towards that shared goal.

- Greg McKenzie
Santa Cruz,  CA

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