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BreakPoint
Cultural commentary with Prison Fellowship's Chuck Colson
http://www.breakpoint.org

August 18, 2004

The Way It Isn�t - Fighting Temptation

Note: This commentary was delivered by Prison Fellowship President Mark
Earley.

Christian parents know that when their children head off to college,
they face a host of new temptations�not the least of which are sexual
temptations. With co-ed dorms and little adult supervision, young people
need to know how to defend themselves against the standard �lines� that
they will encounter.

Even more important, they need to understand that many of the most
common lines express a false worldview. As Professor J. Budziszewski
points out in his book How to Stay Christian in College, this is
especially true at college�because ideas are the stock and trade of
higher education.

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Take, for example, the argument for sexual experimentation. It goes like
this: �In order to make wise choices about sex, you have to experience
it.� This isn�t just a �line� a guy might use with a girl; it�s a false
theory of knowledge. It says that personal experience is the only way to
know anything, and the test of experience is, of course, how you feel.

Now that�s a principle many people rely on when making decisions. Is
abortion wrong? �Depends on how it makes you feel,� they say. Is God
real? �Well, I�ll try it, and see how He makes me feel.�

But as a theory of knowledge, this principle is clearly inadequate. In
fact, in reality experience sometimes limits our ability to make wise
choices. Consider drug addiction or suicide. We don�t become drug
addicts to find out whether it�s a good idea to be addicted. And we
can�t commit suicide to learn more about it. In these cases, experience
prevents you from being able to choose wisely. The addict can�t choose
wisely because he�s hooked, and the suicide victim certainly can�t
choose because he�s dead.

Over the centuries there have been quite a number of cases like
these�experiences that make it harder to choose wisely, behavior that
subtracts from wisdom rather than adding to it. That�s one reason
Scripture identifies some behaviors as sin and warns us not to try them.

Sex outside marriage is one of these. The best way to understand it is
to stay away from it�to avoid experience and instead to determine what�s
right and wrong through rational evaluation in the light of biblical
revelation. Of course, later we do get different knowledge of sexual
relationships from the �inside���inside� marriage, that is, a
relationship in which each partner has an irreversible commitment to the
good of the other. But you can�t gain that except in such a
relationship�after you�re married.

At college, where learning to think is the name of the game, temptations
gain most of their strength from false ideas. So if you�re heading to
college this fall, or have a loved one who is, get your hands on a copy
of J. Budziszewski�s book How to Stay Christian in College.

God promises that He will provide a way out of every temptation, and
part of that means preparing our minds to refute false ideas. With this
terrific book, surrounded by prayer and a commitment to seek God�s
truth, college can be a time of real intellectual and spiritual growth.


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