Wow, Paula...actually, I think "wow" is all I can say right now.  :)
  > Paula and others,
  >
  > We got up this morning, had breakfast and went to a bank so Dad could
cash
  > his traveler's checks.  These have been difficult to cash at different
  > banks.  We needed to go to the main Bank of China.  I let Dad do this
  > transaction on his own so he could get a good feel of the communication
  > barrier.  It was very amusing.  But he did suceed.    Next we found a
  > Chinese laundry.  It was fun.  Here I am walking down the street with a
bag
  > full of dirty laundry and a camera.  Typical tourist.  We will pick
those up
  > tomorrow. After that we walked many side streets and stores just looking
  > around.  We eventually got tired and decided to catch a cab back to the
  > hotel.  We are very comfortable and know the address of the hotel by
name.
  > We haven't been totally lost yet.  I know Dad is a little freeaked out
by
  > the 6-8 inch narrow misses withj the cabs, cars, buses, and bikes.  He
says
  > that Mother would be too upset to ride in a cab.
  >
  > We ate lunch at KFC today.  The RIchardson's like the western food a
little
  > better.  Plus we all like the challenge of ordering food by pictures.  I
had
  > a woman actually compliment my Mandarin today.  SHe said it exaxctly
like
  > the CD does.  I was very proud.  The girls barely use theri Mandarin.
Xaio
  > Yu and Lian Lian use English a little but they stick to Mandarin for the
  > most part.
  >
  > We went shopping again today.  We bought XY a pair of pants, a little
  > wallet, a CD/VCD player, and 4 CD/VCDs.  I think she whas gotten away
from
  > being shy about buying things.  SHe has actuially come to me with
requests.
  > I have said no a couple times.  Don't want her to think I am made of the
  > stuff.  She has been very appropriate about it.  My Dad bought some
rolling
  > luggage today.  He got 60% off the sticker price and was estactic.  He
  > bought it for 25$ It was probably worth ten.  Let him feel good about
it.
  > He did a good job.
  >
  > XY and Lian like to stay close.  They talk and work as a team.  They
seem
  > very comfortable with us  I think.  We do get many stares.  SOmetimes
the
  > girls walk hand in hand down the street.  All five of them!!  It is
quite
  > the sight.  Sarah is not really into the hand holding scene.  SHe tends
to
  > back out and hang with me.  The girls have continued to work on the
  > communication gaps.  They work with the picture book and we did buy the
  > dictionary today.  Even used it once.  It's funny how the sales person
will
  > begin talking to me in Chinese and then move to XY.  Xy will then say
the
  > exact same thing to me...in CHINESE.  Like I understand it better know.
  > It's very amusing.  SHe tries very hard.
  >
  > I have noticed that the girls tend to get bored and begin playing
gameboys
  > in the room.  This is their retreat from trying to communicate.  I
realize
  > it is hard.  I have a hard time with it too.
  >
  > The most awesome thing happened today.  On our ride home in the cab,
Sarah
  > was sitting on my lap and XY was next to me on the other side.  We were
all
  > tired.  XY put her head on my shoulder and her hand on my arm.  It
wasn't
  > much, but it made me feel warm all over.  SHe is a wonderful kid in a
very
  > strange situation.  I think she is very appreciative of our generousity.
  > She just doesn't know what to make of all of it.  I couldn't be happier
in
  > doing this.  SHe is really going to grow.
  >
  > Speaking of growing, XY eats like a horse!!
  >
  > Talk to you later,
  >
  > Love
  >
  > Walt



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