The fact I don’t think it is necessary for a Lego set specifically endorsing 
the role of women in computing is unpleasant or mean spirited?

Get a life Liam. I simply expressed my view.

Are we really at a state on this list where when someone posts mentioning 
something, that anyone who expresses any alternative view is behaving 
unacceptably?

Talk about snowflakes.

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To: Doc Shipley <d...@vaxen.net>; General Discussion: On-Topic and Off-Topic 
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Subject: Re: Women of Computing

On Sun, 5 Dec 2021 at 16:09, Doc Shipley via cctalk <cctalk@classiccmp.org> 
wrote:
>
> On 12/4/21 12:37, Josh Dersch via cctalk wrote:
> >
> > OK, Boomer.
> >
> There's really no call to be nasty about it.
>
> To those of us who are baby boomers, that usage is extremely offensive.

I suspect that was the plan.

Chris Long's email was nasty, unpleasant and a mean-spirited and unpleasant 
thing to say. The fact that they felt the need to say it on a public forum 
indicates either that they do not care what other people feel, or that they 
wanted to cause offence.

When someone is so insensitive that they do not understand that their words can 
hurt others, then sometimes, an effective way to show to them that words can be 
hurtful and that they shouldn't say mean things, is to say something that is 
hurtful to them.

This can illustrate to people who do not normally care about others'
feelings that they do not like it when their own feelings are hurt.

It is, sadly, a common attribute of a certain age group, especially of old 
white straight men, to give little regard to others' feelings like this. They 
typically consider a waste of time any kind of affirmative action that helps, 
boosts, or engages with people who are not old, white, straight and men.

This is a bad way to behave. Nobody should act like that. It violates Wheaton's 
Law, which is a basic principle of how to be a civilised human being.

"OK, Boomer" is just a succinct and clear way of saying "you are an unpleasant 
old man and we do not need to listen to your useless hurtful opinions."

If that sounds like you, then my advice to you is not to complain about it, but 
to engage with it, and learn how not to be such a person, and then go and teach 
other such folk how to be better people.

If it doesn't sound like you, then you should not be bothered by it.

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