"she fucking ruined my first one, and i PROMISE y'alls she wont this time."
This says everything... f*ck her.. do your thing -- Scott Stewart ColdFusion Developer SSTWebworks 7241 Jillspring Ct. Springfield, Va. 22152 (703) 220-2835 http://www.sstwebworks.com -----Original Message----- From: Tony [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Friday, May 25, 2007 8:25 AM To: CF-Community Subject: Re: condundrum, and i need ur input. well, i can only say this. my sister will NOT go 2 for 2 with my weddings. she fucking ruined my first one, and i PROMISE y'alls she wont this time. im takin momma's advice on this one, and just about 99% of the peeps here. its MY womans day, its HERS to choose when she wants it. its OURS to enjoy. and anyone who DOESNT like it... well, as i always say, FUCK EM. i just havent got time to stress about it. we arent making decisions based on her or her wedding date, sure, if it was the day before, the week before, the MONTH before, or even 2 FUCKING months before, i could MAYBE begin to understand. but this is a quarter of a freakin year. 3 months, over 90 days. i just dont see it. all this tells me, is that she is driven by narcissism, and self promotion. nothing else. in fact, the ONLY person taking the spotlight off of her wedding is herself, and if she is that fucking narcissistic to think that we are THAT WORRIED about her fucking wedding, then she is the crazy one, not us. im sorry, i just cant look at it any other way. :) tw On 5/25/07, Dana Tierney <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > the sister *should* get a grip, but will she :) I dunno -- I've said my bit. Basically, it's your choice, but the sooner your fiance and your sister talk the better is my thought. I've seem major wedding dramas over something as simple as the bridesmaid not wanting to go off her Antabuse to drink a toast. The bride (not me) insisted and well, therein lies a tale... > > >wow. Im glad your mum straightened it all out. I was gonna come up there to > >Maryland and beat you up for even considering what your sister had to say. > > > >Sorry, but I totally disagree with everyone who said "respect your sister's > >wishes". BS. Big BS. > >It's your fiance's choice, her marriage, your day. You two sleep together, > >grow old together, deal with each other EVERY SINGLE DAY. > >It's your day, your right to choose whatever you want to do. > > > >Personally, I feel your sis is thinking since it's a second one for you, it > >shouldn't matter ... well, as Adam says, tell her to go feck off, and get > >you get married where and when you want! > > > >GOSH DARN, it's 3 whole freaking months before! She needs to get a grip. > > > >GAH!!!! Burns me up!!! the whole thread was burning me up til I got to you > >mum ... :) Well done mum! > > > >Happy happy day to ya'll! > > > >Erika > > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~| Macromedia ColdFusion MX7 Upgrade to MX7 & experience time-saving features, more productivity. http://www.adobe.com/products/coldfusion?sdid=RVJW Archive: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/CF-Community/message.cfm/messageid:235592 Subscription: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/CF-Community/subscribe.cfm Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/unsubscribe.cfm?user=89.70.5