I think its all tied up in insecurity. If someone is insecure, then any talk of others makes them feel more so. Luckily, Judith and I are very secure in our relationship. We talk about others with no problem. If I think that someone is hot, I'll tell Judith so. Unfortunately, I'll probably go more into what they're wearing and how it works (or doesn't work) for them or how a specific body part stands out (no, not always the breasts). Judith is secure, but just doesn't go into the details I do. :)
> Phil and Boytoy needn't worry, though - am just being > playfully complimentary. > > Have never understood the stereotypical male reaction > that someone even thinking their female partner looks > attractive, or looking at them, is grounds for nuking > the other guy. > > If somebody thought my wife looked good, I should > appreciate that they complimented my partner. > > If they made a pass at her, I trust that she would > indicate that wasn't appropriate. > > Were they really bothering her, I trust she would let me > know. > > I'm not suspicious of her, and don't feel a need to be > jealous. To me, that's either insecure, or not trusting. > > -Ben > > > Yep, this is the part of the conversation that I don't want my kids reading. Now > > the real question is, did you mean to write "Beth or Eri*K*a" or "Beth and > > Eri*K*a"? ;) > > (And Phil might ring your chimes a different way thinking of his wife like that) > > > > > > > But I'm not sure I would want Nick to ring my chimes! > > > (Can we substitute Beth or Eri*K*a??) > > > > > > -Ben > > > Activating Anti-ICBMP shield for surviving until tomorrow > > > > > > > Yeah, but then he'd be laying down and saying to himself over and over > > again... > > > > > > > > "England. Queen. Parliament. Big Ben. BIG BEN!!!" > > > > > > > > ;) > > > > > > > > -V > > > > > > > > -----Original Message----- > > > > From: Michael Dinowitz [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]] > > > > Sent: Tuesday, July 09, 2002 2:09 PM > > > > To: CF-Community > > > > Subject: Re: Super Duper Controversial post....heheh > > > > > > > > > > > > No. Just lay back and think of England. :) > > > > > > > > > > > > > Does Ben have any say in this matter??????? > > > > > > > > > > > > Is that because the animals are gay, or because they want to get off? > > > > > > > > > > > > Nick, > > > > > > if you were horny would you screw Ben? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ______________________________________________________________________ Get the mailserver that powers this list at http://www.coolfusion.com Archives: http://www.mail-archive.com/[email protected]/ Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/index.cfm?sidebar=lists
