awesome ;) LOL i picked up most of my education through common sense and reading. Always found it laughable that some guys dont know what they are doing and vowed never to make that same mistake.
Yea i was a little annoyed my friendship got ruined but i figured it would happen since he was just like hay you're my friend lets have a 3some with my girl oy vay. Oh well taught me a valuable less on play with people who are already into that kinda thing now SEEING if they are into it ----- Original Message ----- From: "Ben Braver" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: "CF-Community" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Sent: Wednesday, March 19, 2003 12:16 PM Subject: Re: Do you know everyone in the cf-community? :-) Bill- <serious answer, no jokes or puns> They invited me over to dinner one night after work. I had a bit too much to drink, wasn't used to it (19). They said I should sleep over on the hide-a-bed in the living room. Apparently they had the whole thing planned - i.e. "take pity on the poor horny kid who isn't getting any, maybe teach him a few things". She thought that was a fun idea. They were happily married, but the context of their relationship included both having recreational sex with other people. Seemed to work for them. It surprised the heck out of me when she walked into the living room stark naked !!! (Tall slender dancer figure - she had been a dancer. About 6'1" tall, quite dramatic.) In a somewhat strangled, panicky voice, I asked "does Lee know what you're doing?" She smiled and said "he sent me!". Then I heard a laugh from the bedroom. Figured "when in Rome..." and "don't look a gift horse in the mouth" or something like that. Besides, he was right - I was a phkwiga (see above) and have always been a teacher's pet. Also, getting it on with a confident, experienced woman sounded better than fumbling around with a kid ! The only initial effect on my relationship with him was that I was quite a bit embarrassed. In the morning, he and I were walking to work together. He broke out in a big grin and asked if I slept well. Made it very clear that he was pleased about what happened. Told me she was glad I enjoyed it so much, and she had some other things she wanted to show me, give my education a really good start. So, there were several more "lessons" in the course. Was only too glad to try to earn a good grade. They were right - about a month later, I stumbled into a really nice g/f relationship, and really benefited from the tutoring. He ended up being a mentor in terms of career and education guidance. Will always have fond memories of that special couple. Ah, those were the days... -Ben At 09:32 AM 3/19/03 -0500, you wrote: >Gotta love open marriages ;) > >Mine was open but then it opened up too much and now we're 3000 miles open >lOL > >Q: Ben did you find that screwed up your relationship with him at all for >awhile? > >had something like that happen with a friend and i didnt want to but he got >all freaked out and it >ruined the friendship. Of course i've done it and its been fine i guess it >just depends >what type people you play with to see how they will handle the issues >----- Original Message ----- >From: "Ben Braver" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> >To: "CF-Community" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> >Sent: Tuesday, March 18, 2003 4:56 PM >Subject: Re: Do you know everyone in the cf-community? :-) > > >Marlon- > >I sure did (have a cool boss) !! >'sides that, he even counselled me on going back and finishing college <g>. > >Don't forget this was San Francisco in 1969. >Lot of different attitudes towards relationships there/then. >They enjoyed a very "open marriage". > >OK, gotta toss in a pun here - >her first name was Letha, >and I referred to what happened to me that first night as >"assault with a Letha weapon". ><vbg> > >-Ben > > >At 02:39 PM 3/18/03 -0600, you wrote: >>Man, you had a cool boss :) >> >> >>On Tue, 18 Mar 2003 14:26:25 -0400, Ben Braver <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: >> >>> Bill W- >>> >>> you said "17 to a 37 year old >>> >>> >>> Question: Favorite Umm position? " >>> >>> My real first time (as opposed to "sort of" <g>) >>> was 19 with a 35 year old - my boss's wife! >>> (it was his idea - and she thought it would be a trip to be my "first"). >>> Then she decided to ummm "educate" me in various positions. >>> >>> Favorite position: "Trapeze". Don't think I should explain on list. >>> >>> Follow-up question: Anybody been in a threesome? >>> >>> -Ben >>> >>> >> > > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~| Archives: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/index.cfm?forumid=5 Subscription: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/index.cfm?method=subscribe&forumid=5 Structure your ColdFusion code with Fusebox. Get the official book at http://www.fusionauthority.com/bkinfo.cfm Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/unsubscribe.cfm?user=89.70.5
