The fact is, the moment you hear something like that emanating from her mouth, you should immediately run.  I don't mean that the woman should be totally dependant on a man, but hey, a marriage is a partnership and you come to rely on one another.  If a woman doesn't want that, then she shouldn't date.   

- Matt Small
  ----- Original Message -----
  From: brob
  To: CF-Community
  Sent: Thursday, October 23, 2003 4:43 PM
  Subject: Re: She said yes

  That's strange mine was the same.  This "independent", "I'm not gonna take crap from anyone" deal
    ----- Original Message -----
    From: Matthew Small
    To: CF-Community
    Sent: Thursday, October 23, 2003 3:29 PM
    Subject: Re: She said yes

    Absolutely, you're right - it's the baggage part that makes relationships hard.  Every girl I've dated before her had  at least one really bad long term relationship and now wants to be "independant".  I got this one fresh - she'd never been in a long term relationship before.

    - Matt Small
      ----- Original Message -----
      From: Dan Phillips (CFXHosting.com)
      To: CF-Community
      Sent: Thursday, October 23, 2003 3:39 PM
      Subject: RE: She said yes

      My personally, I could never get along with women in their early 20's.
      Too much baggage/stuff to deal with. But thats just me (and the people I
      dated as well). I usually go for women a bit older. Right now I'm 29 and
      my girlfriend is 33

      All in all though, if you get along, age is really not an issue IMHO.
      Just have to make sure you are on the same page in life, or at least
      reading the same book.

      -----Original Message-----
      From: Matthew Small [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
      Sent: Thursday, October 23, 2003 3:41 PM
      To: CF-Community
      Subject: Re: She said yes

      Um, like she's not in my age range?  :-) I think that the older a man is
      (reasonably) the more secure a relationship is.  Women mature faster,
      and it also takes a measure of experience over that of the woman to make
      it work.  Of course, her being a young hottie doesn hurt at all.  :-)

      - Matt Small

      ----- Original Message -----
        From: Ben Doom
        To: CF-Community
        Sent: Thursday, October 23, 2003 3:22 PM
        Subject: Re: She said yes

        Fine.  Steal all the girls in my age range.  See if I care.

        <cfgrumble />

        j/k
        One of the happiest couples I know are even further apart -- he's 35/6

        and she's 23.

        --benD

        Matthew Small wrote:

        > I'm 31 and she's 23.
        >
        > Thanks everyone :-D
        >
        > - Matt Small
        >   ----- Original Message -----
        >   From: brob
        >   To: CF-Community
        >   Sent: Thursday, October 23, 2003 3:06 PM
        >   Subject: Re: She said yes
        >
        >   Hey matt how old are you and your gf, just wonderin
        >     ----- Original Message -----
        >     From: Matthew Small
        >     To: CF-Community
        >     Sent: Thursday, October 23, 2003 1:00 PM
        >     Subject: She said yes
        >
        >     Hi everyone,
        >         Well, I did it, I proposed to the girlfriend, and she said
      yes.
        > We went to Niagra Falls and that where I proposed, on Table Rock
        > Point.  We were there at the same time that the guy jumped in,
      although
        > we didn't realize what the fire trucks and the ambulances were for
      at
        > the time.
        >         I ended up giving her the ring that Brian Ledwith had asked
      me
        > to look at, and boy, it is a stunning art deco-style ring featuring
      a
        > Sapphire main stone with diamonds surrounding it. She's thrilled
      with
        > it, I knew she would be.  View the ring at
        > http://www.showstopperonline.com/ring
        >         The date is November 6, 2004.
        >
        >     - Matt Small
        >
        >     P.S. Sorry to hear about your split Tim.
        >
        >

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