I sense major control issues, personally. But maybe he likes it that way...
:::shrug:: there are some things some people are not ready to hear, and I have said my bit.

Matt, I hope it all works out for you.

Dana

>Hey Tim,
>
>"so screwed" can be a very good thing! ;-)
>
>but I presume you mean it the *other* way -
>just curious why if ya don't mind me asking?
>
>-Ben
>
>
>>Wow you're so screwed if you marry this chick.
>>
>>And it's really not way faster, I would be glad to prove it when ever you
>>feel like coming up to dc.
>>  -----Original Message-----
>>  From: Matthew Small [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
>>  Sent: Monday, December 29, 2003 3:45 PM
>>  To: CF-Community
>>  Subject: Re: I think I'm in trouble
>>
>>
>>  OK everyone, I have a lot of answers straight from the source...
>>
>>  1)  She's upset because I made a major purchase without consulting her.
>>    To my credit, I have been telling her that I wanted something new, but
>>  I didn't find anything until I saw this Mustang.
>>
>>  2) She would not have been mad if I had bought something sensible, just
>>  a bit annoyed that I had not included her.  This is not because she
>>  wants to dicate things to me, it's because if I had been thinking about
>>  what is good for us rather than me.
>>
>>  3) I was wrong, I will admit it.
>>
>>  4) She told me that if I wanted the car, I could keep it if it was what
>>  I wanted, and she meant it.
>>
>>  5) We tried to return the vehicle.  There is no 72 hours right of
>>  rescission on automobiles.
>>
>>  5) We were going to trade it for something else (the dealer gave us
>>  this choice) but there was nothing else in my price range that I liked.
>>
>>  6) We've decided to keep it and sell it outright.  I feel that I can
>>  get at least what I put into the vehicle since it's below blue book.
>>
>>  7) I'm taking her out tonight to Carraba's for some delicious mussels.
>>
>>  8) She's a wonderful, understanding person.  She was just extremely
>>  upset that I did this without her input.
>>
>>  9) I actually think she likes the car, now that she's seen it, and she
>>  will like it more after I take her out in it tonight.
>>
>>  10)  Thank for your input.
>>
>>  11)  This car is WAY faster than Tim's.
>>
>>  - Matt Small
>>
>>  On Monday, December 29, 2003, at 11:20 AM, Andre Turrettini wrote:
>>
>>  > This is true.  Matt, Can you give us more insight into her stong
>>  > response?
>>  > DRE
>>  >
>>  > -----Original Message-----
>>  > From: dana tierney [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
>>  > Sent: Monday, December 29, 2003 8:18 AM
>>  > To: CF-Community
>>  > Subject: Re:I think I'm in trouble
>>  >
>>  > He's right tho, if my SO tried to dictate the car I could buy I would
>>  > run
>>  > like hell in the other direction. Unless he was buying it for me; at
>>  > that
>>  > point he deserves some say. Sorry Matt but imho this is a major red
>>  > flag
>>  > which you ignore at your peril.
>>  >
>>  > Dana
>>  >
>>  > >Mike,
>>  > >  You're either single or have the most tolerant wife on the planet!
>>  > >"perhaps the marriage is just not meant to be"... you're killing me,
>>  > Man.
>>  > >
>>  > >~Simon
>>  > >
>>  > >Simon Horwith
>>  > >CTO, Etrilogy Ltd.
>>  > >Member of Team Macromedia
>>  > >Macromedia Certified Instructor
>>  > >Certified Advanced ColdFusion MX Developer
>>  > >Certified Flash MX Developer
>>  > >CFDJList - List Administrator
>>  > >http://www.how2cf.com/
>>  > >
>>  > >  -----Original Message-----
>>  > >  From: Haggerty, Mike [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
>>  > >  Sent: 29 December 2003 15:23
>>  > >  To: CF-Community
>>  > >  Subject: RE: I think I'm in trouble
>>  > >
>>  > >
>>  > >  Keep the car, give it a name, add nitrous, flourescent lights, a
>>  > tricked
>>  > >  out odometer and racing seats. Put a big sticker on the back
>>  > windshield
>>  > >  indicating you are part of a street racing team.
>>  > >
>>  > >  What was the name of the car Will Farrell's character drove in Old
>>  > >  School? If your wife can't deal with you having a cool ride, which
>>  > is a
>>  > >  part of your identify, perhaps the marriage is just not meant to be.
>>  > >  Imagine what life will be like in 20 years when she becomes
>>  > hysterical
>>  > >  over a bunch of doylies over or something - you do not want that.
>>  > It's
>>  > >  going to be lemonade and cucumber sandwiches instead of beer and
>>  > chicken
>>  > >  wings, and that ain't right. Put your foot down and keep your
>>  > dignity.
>>  > >
>>  > >  M
>>  > >
>>  > >  -----Original Message-----
>>  > >  From: Matthew Small [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
>>  > >  Sent: Saturday, December 27, 2003 11:43 PM
>>  > >  To: CF-Community
>>  > >  Subject: I think I'm in trouble
>>  > >
>>  > >  I pulled a boner today.
>>  > >
>>  > >  I'm in the market for a new vehicle, since the truck that I'm
>>  > driving,
>>  > >  while good looking and well running, has 173,000 miles on it.  It's
>>  > a
>>  > >  1995 Chevy Silverado, 4x4. My fiancee loves the thing, thinks it's
>>  > the
>>  > >  manliest truck on this earth. For the record, she's 23, I'm 31, we
>>  > >  don't live together, and she's never had a FT job before since she
>>  > just
>>  > >  graduated Grad School with an MBA. She's a lovely girl, just a
>>  > little
>>  > >  idealistic sometimes due to youth.
>>  > >
>>  > >  So I go out today, just browsing and this car catches my eye - it'
>>  > s a
>>  > >  2001 Mustang GT.  Worse yet, it's a Mustang GT Bullitt - a Steve
>>  > >  McQueen style race car. So I test drive it, am unnaturally scared to
>>  > >  death of it, and then buy it.  I figure since it's only got 38,000
>>  > on
>>  > >  the odometer, that it will get getter mileage than the giant truck,
>>  > and
>>  > >  that she also has a Mustang that this will resonant well with the
>>  > >  fiancee.
>>  > >
>>  > >  Anyway, I proceed to call her after I buy it and she starts crying
>>  > >  because I got rid of the truck.  She's a bit emotional too
>>  > sometimes.
>>  > >  Please don't get the wrong idea, she's great, but emotional about
>>  > >  things sometimes.
>>  > >
>>  > >  Let me tell you a little bit more about the car - it's unbelievably
>>  > >  fast.  I don't know the stats, but the car has some sort of mod
>>  > chip in
>>  > >  it that pushes it to 305 HP.  It's a five speed ass haulin' trip to
>>  > the
>>  > >  hospital then to jail for wreckless driving.  I admit that I'm a
>>  > freak
>>  > >  for speed sometimes.  This is without doubt the fastest car I've
>>  > ever
>>  > >  been in.  Anyway, it's a cool little thing with all of the bells and
>>  > >  whistles.
>>  > >
>>  > >  We're not going to have any children soon, so that not an issue, but
>>  > >  she did say that she thought I was going to get something more
>>  > "yuppie"
>>  > >  - like an SUV or BMW or something like that.
>>  > >
>>  > >  Anyway, that's the boner.  I think I'm going to take the car back
>>  > >  tomorrow morning and get the truck back. Any comments from my
>>  > friends
>>  > >  on the list?
>>  > >
>>  > >  - Matt Small
>>  > >
>>  >   _____
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>>  >
>>  >
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