Oh and one more thing.. the drama is usually in similar context
which after awhile is abusive and hurtful.. My hubby is blunt and
forward .. HE tells it like it is and some people are surprised but
at the same time he pays compliments and makes you feel good. He
tells it like he sees it.. THat is the kind of assertive person I
want to be around. But what I see here with the same crap that
hurts is if you are a breeder or you don't do things the way I feel
the world should be then you are TRASH.. And who put that person in
charge of the world. My attitude is the owner should be checking in
and checking the member who is causing the strife. Cindy
--- In Chihuahuas@yahoogroups.com, KAT <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
>
> Hi Cindy,
>
> I can understand why you quit posting, this kind of stuff is
exactly why
> I hardly ever post to any of the groups, I'm afraid to open my
month for
> fear I will say something that will get a war started. My question
is
> this, why isn't the owner of this group stepping in to stop this
kind of
> thing?
>
> Kat
>
> willowcowdog1 wrote:
>
> > Hi new member.. I to was a new member and quit posting a while
back
> > but when it comes to my attention that member's are being hurt
> > (feelings) then I find that is not right.. Everybody has just
> > avoided this person for a long time. When I joined , my
> > introduction was a private e-mail saying " Nonnie is at it again
and
> > be careful. SHe directed her answer at you. Just a warning.. I
was
> > so grateful to that person. " We join these groups hopefully to
> > make friends and we should not have to go through this kind of
> > stuff. So with all that said. I wanted to explain.
> >
> > I do welcome you and hope you are not a breeder. If so , be
> > careful.. Cindy
> >
> > --- In Chihuahuas@yahoogroups.com, "roman_coin_collector"
> > <roman_coin_collector@> wrote:
> > >
> > > Hello all,
> > > I am a new member,and I am very concerned.I was reading my
> > messages
> > > this weekend.Normally I don't see much in my mailbox from this
> > > group,that was until I saw the Multiple posts about "Nonnie"Why
> > are we
> > > flaming each other?We all have opinions,and we should share
> > them.But
> > > opinions are like the old proverb and we all have them.I asked
> > what I
> > > thought was a legit question about a problem I am having with
one
> > of my
> > > rescued chis.You know only one kind man answered me.He was as
> > helpful
> > > as he could be,but he admitted he probably didn't have the
answers
> > I
> > > needed.Guess what?I will publicly thank him right now,"Thank
you
> > sir
> > > for trying to help me".I thought we all shared a common love
> > > here,Chis.I think flaming each other is a waste of good time.We
> > could
> > > help each other better by focussing on why we joined this
> > group,for the
> > > love of chis.Our opinion on breeders will be as different as
the
> > > breeders themselves.Some are good and responsible,others are
in it
> > only
> > > for money.I support responsible breeders,and I have turned in
> > > irresponsible ones.Lets get on with our love,The Chi.
> > > Thanks for reading,
> > > Dennis
>
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