what a powerful and empowering reply. thank you for reminding me that my bond with him is worth much more than my embarassment at calling this woman on her practice! lov michelle and henry -----Original Message----- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: Chihuahuas@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tue, 16 Jan 2007 11:04 AM Subject: Re: [Chihuahuas] Agility question
You can be 100% sure your baby feels you're uncomfortable in that environment and this apart won't help as he would react to the trainer same way as you do. Besides this I don't think this a professional person...if you have any doubts about the training a professional would explain and listen instead of giving you commands! Does she have a supervisor???? If she does talk to him/her and if she doesn't ask for your money back and hire another trainer. About pushing a dog to do something they don't want....it's totally nonsense to me. We want to make them happy and they would do anything to make us happy too. If you force him to do something he doesn't want to do he will do it to please you but would this make him really happy?? Some dogs enjoy agility because they were breed to work like that but as humans not every dog have the same stamina. About you being over protective....... I think your six sense is telling you how your baby feels like. I trust my guts, whenever I feel weird about something is because something is just not right. Remember dogs and humans make huge bonds and this includes our minds. Dio benedice, Wilmary Nazario "L'unica cosa stata necessaria per il trionfo della malvagita e affinche i buoni uomini non faccia niente" ----- Original Message ---- From: "[EMAIL PROTECTED]" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: Chihuahuas@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tuesday, January 16, 2007 9:32:24 AM Subject: Re: [Chihuahuas] Agility question grreat answers thank you.. but is it ever ok to push a guy so he can do something. Week after week I watch larger breeds respond to it. And I question my fear. Am I being way too over protective? I really hate being patronized by the instructor that I baby him. But don't think I did not ask who would pay the vet bills should he skittle away from her arms on the dog walk (4' in the air ramp) when she asked me to step away. It was kind of embarassing as she told me to take my seat and I stood there as if she was not talking- I could not leave him with her. -----Original Message----- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] net To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] ups.com Sent: Tue, 16 Jan 2007 6:46 AM Subject: RE: [Chihuahuas] Agility question good post Sheila From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] ups.com [mailto:Chihuahuas@ yahoogroups. com] On Behalf Of Wilmary Nazario Sent: Monday, January 15, 2007 10:02 PM To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] ups.com Subject: Re: [Chihuahuas] Agility question I don't think dogs have goals to reach in order to feel confident with themselves. Therefore if you think something may be potentialy dangerous for you baby you have all the right to let the trainner know and she MUST do as you ask. You are paying her so she has to teach your baby what you want and nothing else....if something happens to your chi, she won't be responsable and you will have to live with that. Though toy breeds are not as fragil as we think. If you are not planning on compete in agility then the training is just to have some fun, and that includes you. My humble opinion is that any dog confidence is asociate with how good their bonds with the pack (family) are, play time and how healthy is. Good luck and next time ask the trainer to eliminate from his routine that part. Dio benedice, Wilmary Nazario "L'unica cosa stata necessaria per il trionfo della malvagita e affinche i buoni uomini non faccia niente" ----- Original Message ---- From: dasha48 <[EMAIL PROTECTED] net> To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] ups.com Sent: Monday, January 15, 2007 8:40:33 PM Subject: RE: [Chihuahuas] Agility question You know, I don't know much about agility but that trainer sounds like she does not know that much about Chi's. What will she do if he is injured? Will she help you pay the vet bill? Sheila From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] ups.com [mailto:Chihuahuas@ yahoogroups. com] On Behalf Of eridanusdesign@ aol.com Sent: Monday, January 15, 2007 12:17 PM To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] ups.com Subject: [Chihuahuas] Agility question My guy just started beginner agilty classes and he really loves it...comes home so happy. We have little jumps and a tire and tube in the backyard and he thinks he's hot stuff. I get a bit worried though when the trainer forces him to do something. (like full height a-frame, dog walk) It seems to work for the big guys but I do not like it and had to let her know. She said I baby him too much which was typical for "toy breed" owners. He is treat-driven so I assume theres no time to work that way in a group class. If he did not like the class so much I'd pull him out. What's your experience gang? I thought forcing injures your bond, but when does it build confidence? michelle and henry (15 month boy) catskill mountains NY -----Original Message----- From: akhunter007@ hotmail.com To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] ups.com Sent: Mon, 15 Jan 2007 11:10 AM Subject: [Chihuahuas] Agility Chis Rock My little man got his Novice Agility Title from the AKC yesterday! I am so proud of him. He would've gotten it on Saturday if his silly handler (me) had not hit the wing of the second to last jump with her knee. See, Chis can do anything! Check out the new AOL. Most comprehensive set of free safety and security tools, free access to millions of high-quality videos from across the web, free AOL Mail and more. Everyone is raving about the all-new Yahoo! Mail beta. Need Mail bonding? Go to the Yahoo! Mail Q&A for great tips from Yahoo! Answers users. ________________________________________________________________________ Check out the new AOL. 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