Kids and chis are a topic all to themselves. You will find chis that just 
absolutely adore kids and then you will find those that can't stand the sight 
of a kid. It can go either way and I think the way you yourself handle their 
interaction, ect will determine how it will go in your case.

As a breeder, I personally do not want my chis to go to homes with small 
children unless they have prior chi experience. It has been my experience that 
the relationship between chis and kids leans slightly to the left of NOT 
getting along.......but that can be easily corrected if handled right. But an 
even bigger fear is that young kids do not understand how fragile a chi is and 
a chi can be easily hurt even when the child means well. I also think this is 
the reason so many chis don't get along with kids....unbeknownst to the adults, 
at some point the kids has probably picked the chi up and dropped it or 
something and the chi has not forgotten. Even the "loving" a toddler gives, can 
be too rough for a chi. And those little bites a chi give, while wouldn't hurt 
an adult, could hurt a child.

People who truly understand Chihuahuas know how to handle chi/kid interaction 
for a positive relationship. Some mistakes some make include pushing the chi 
away and not letting it meet the baby, which makes the chi jealous, or, at the 
opposite end, over babying the chi in the presence of the baby, making the chi 
feel an alpha status over the child.

The chi must be able to meet the new human, know that he is still loved and 
welcomed, but he must also know that all humans including new baby, has alpha 
status over the dogs......it is a balance that must be carefully met and if it 
is done correctly, the baby has a friend that will be loyal for many years to 
come...they can grow up together.

Congrats on the new baby! :-)

Marsha

Do not tell God how big your storm is. Tell the storm how big your God is.

  ----- Original Message ----- 
  From: toshia nicholson 
  To: [email protected] 
  Sent: Sunday, September 16, 2007 11:10 AM
  Subject: Re: [Chihuahuas] Just Joined Group



  Sorry it's kinda long.  I ramble a lot.

  Yeah that is what I'm afraid of doing.  He runs not walks and zig zags the 
whole time.  I'm afraid any correction would hurt him even trying to keep him 
close to me like Ceasar says.  I thought about a harness but haven't gotten one 
yet.  He is so small that I don't think places like WalMart carries them.  I'll 
check out Petsmart this week.
  So far he gets along well with me.  Him and my husbad had a rough start.  My 
husband put him in one of the little kennels we have so he could go to the 
bathroom because we didn't have a leash or collar for him yet and when my 
husband went to get him he ran and nipped at him.  I understand that he was 
scared and he hasn't done it since..  He's bonding to us nicely.
  Most chis I've been around are neurotic is there a way to tell now instead of 
later.  I have two dobermans who are both very high stung neurotic dogs.  I 
want a nice mellow inside dog.  So far he seems that way but every once in 
ahile he'll run around.  I wasn't planning on a chi for an inside dog but he 
needed a home and my husband brought him home for me.
  Do chis get along well with kids?  I'm expecting my first baby in Dec.  Got 
any suggestions?

  Toshia


  arlene weaver <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
    Hi welcome to the group.  my name is arlene i have two dogs one chi and one 
pom pom. chis work well with praise and treats. they are very smart and like 
their own way. so you have to trick them into thinking  it is thier idea.  one 
thing i know about walking chi dont yank on the lease to correct him.  you can 
hurt his layx, cant spell, then they cough all the  time, very bad.  post pic 
as soon as you can i would love to see him.   arlene

    Toshia <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: 
      Hi, my name is Toshia and I've just acquired a Chihuahua. I've never 
      owned a small dog my entire life. I currently have 6 dogs, a husky 
      mix, a lab mix, 2 dobermans, a GSD pup and a ch. All ae rescues of 
      some sort. I've named the Chi Tater Tot and it seems to fit him. He 
      seems to be housebroken and is crate trained. How do I go about 
      training him for other stuff. Like I said before I'm used to big 
      dogs. I'm afraid I'll hurt him because he's so little. I want to have 
      him walk better on a leash but I don't know how with him being so 
      little and low to the ground.

      Help?





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