Joel, this is brilliant. Thank you so much for putting in this kind of 
creativity and thought into your work!  

-Alex  


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On Wednesday, October 31, 2012 at 3:22 PM, Joel Bennett wrote:

> After writing this a few weeks ago, reading and retweeking it a number of 
> times, and nearly shelving it completely, I am sharing this with you... the 
> international coworking community.
>   
> I'd appreciate your feedback, but more importantly I would love for you to 
> add to the "lessons learned" at the end with the focus on planting, tending, 
> cultivating your coworking community.  I'd even enjoy edits to the story to 
> add your experiences!
>   
> So without further adieu... A Coworking Parable.
>   
>  
> Coworking is about community.
>   
> Building that community is not something you can force.  No matter how hard 
> we try to speed the process up or do all the right things to "make it 
> happen", community is built organically.
>   
> Alex Hillman recently posted on this topic and compared growing community 
> inside a coworking space to growing a flower.  Beyond the simple elegance of 
> this comparison lies some substantial truths.
>   
> As a space owner, I can choose to plant seeds throughout everything I do.  
> The are also many things I can do to fertilize, weed, water, and tend the 
> garden, but the growth is determined by the way the seed responds to all of 
> these inputs. If the seed isn't growing as quickly as I like there is little 
> I can do but wait while making sure these basics inputs are present.  Adding 
> too much of them can be just as harmful as not enough.  Messing with nature 
> and its timeline can also lead to plants that have shallow root systems which 
> are unable to make it the long haul, or other plants that produce leaves but 
> no fruit.
>   
> Consider this parable.
>   
> Two brothers lived in the country on their father's farm.  When their father 
> grew ill before planting season, they became panicked, as he had always done 
> all the planning for the farm.  Short on both money and experience, both boys 
> put out a call to their neighbors to help them by bringing them any excess 
> seeds they may have so that they could plant them in their fields.
>   
> The community had pity on the boys and local families sent their youngest 
> sons to deliver their assistance (as the older we in the fields). Gifts came 
> in the handfuls and bagfuls, but without any forethought to what the boys 
> would do with all the seed they had the villagers place them all into a large 
> basin at the gate of their farm.
>   
> Upon inspecting the seeds that had come in, the boys became very distressed.  
> The basin had been filled to the brim with seeds of all kinds, shapes, sizes, 
> and colors.  The brothers had no idea what was what.  Feeling overwhelmed, 
> they agreed to retire for the night and meet in the morning to determine what 
> to do next.
>   
> When morning came the brothers met over breakfast on what they should do 
> about the seeds.
>   
> "All is lost," said the older brother, "and father will be so disappointed in 
> us for not bringing in a crop."   
>   
> "How can we plant a crop that we can't even identify?" Exclaimed the younger 
> brother, "What a mess!"
>   
> "We must do something," said the older brother, "so I have a plan.  You take 
> half the seed and plant it in the lower forty and I'll take half and plant it 
> in the upper 40. By planting two crops using different means at least one of 
> us should yield results."
>   
> "Great idea, brother." said the younger brother, "It's best not to put all 
> our eggs in one basket."
>   
> So each brother set out to plant their crop.  The older brother spent his 
> first few days sorting all the seeds by shape, size, and color so everything 
> of the same kind would be together.  Upon completing the sorting, he began 
> planting, but anxious for results he planted 4 seeds per hole.
>   
> "At least one will grow, and if multiples spring up they'll take the place of 
> any that wither away.  And at the worst, at least all of the same plants will 
> be together."
>   
> The younger brother got right to work.  He spent no time sorting the seeds, 
> but chose to spend his first few days tilling the soil, adding fertilizer, 
> and removing and stones from the plot.  He then reached into his sack of 
> seeds, grabbed a handful of seeds, and spread them far and wide over the 
> plot.  There was no rhyme or reason to where the seeds fell, and guided only 
> by the wind and the lay of the land, they found their final resting place 
> without any direction from the younger brother.
>   
> At the end of their long day both brothers had completed their plots. When 
> they compared notes on how each planted their crops, the older brother was 
> aghast.
>   
> "How could you not have shown more care in planting your seeds?  What will we 
> do if they do not bring a harvest?
>   
> "The risk is the same between both plots, and who am I to decide where a seed 
> will grow best.  Why not let the seed and the ground decide it for 
> themselves?"
>   
> Many days passed and the brothers kept watch on their fields.  No sign of any 
> growth could be found in either field.
>   
> Each day the younger brother went out into the field and tended to the 
> ground, removing stones that worked their way to the surface, removing weeds 
> that were creeping in, and lightly irrigating the plot to keep the soil moist.
>   
> His older brother became more and more panicked with each passing day and his 
> plot showed the signs.  Some days he would dig up seeds to see if they were 
> growing, moving them to another areas of the garden or removing the ones he 
> felt may not have growing potential.  This process often damaged the young 
> root systems of the plants, and their growth was retarded, and sometimes, 
> ceased entirely.
>   
> Other days he would become anxious that soil was just not fertile enough, so 
> he would spend hours spreading fertilizer in big piles around the plot.  Some 
> of the seeds responded with quick growth, shooting up out of the ground only 
> to be withered by the sun because their roots had not had time to fully 
> develop and feed the plant with the water it needed to survive.  Other plants 
> were burned up by the chemicals, suffering from too much of a good thing 
> meted out all at once.
>   
> And if that were not enough, the older brother also watered his seeds 4 times 
> a day, feeling that if a little was good, a lot must be better.  Many plants 
> suffered under the stress of the overwatering, some drowning in the puddles 
> left behind.
>   
> But as the older brother got more and more panicked, and tinkered more and 
> more with his plot, the younger brother continued to go out into the field 
> and tend to the ground, removing stones that worked their way to the surface, 
> removing weeds that were creeping in, and lightly irrigating the plot to keep 
> the soil moist.  As seeds began to spout from the ground he took note of 
> their individual characteristics so he wouldn’t miscategorize them as weeds.
>   
> After a few months of this process the villagers surrounding the farm began 
> to gather and talk about what they were witnessing there.  All agreed that 
> both plots were like nothing they had ever seen before.   
>   
> The younger brother’s plot looked like a hodge-podge of various plants, all 
> intermingled and of different heights and varieties.  The plants looked 
> healthy, but in some areas plants were thriving and growing tall while others 
> lay in their shadows.  The younger brother had decided to let nature take its 
> course, allowing the plants best suited for the plot to flourish while others 
> may be crowded out and die.  He felt any other solutions would invariably 
> impact both plants negatively because they were so intertwined.
>   
> The older brother’s plot was also in disarray.  The crop, although planted in 
> sections, was extremely spotty.  Some areas looked good while others showed 
> wide splotches of distress, or in some cases, bare ground.  His habitual 
> tinkering and meddling into the growth of the plot had caused many plants to 
> die, and too much water and fertilizer had taken its toll on entire rows of 
> crops.
>   
> As harvest time approached, both brothers began to think about the arduous 
> task of collecting their crops.  The older brother chose to use the equipment 
> they had on hand to combine the crops, but quickly realized that due to the 
> various heights, types, and growing seasons of his crops, much of his harvest 
> would be lost during the process that required much more uniformity and 
> consistency.
>   
> After a long period of thought, the younger brother decided to harvest his 
> crop by hand, picking the grain from each plant one by one to minimize loss.  
> Although the process would be very time consuming, it would actually be more 
> efficient, as each plant could be targeted individually and those whose grain 
> was not quite ready could be harvested in later rounds.
>   
> When the process was complete, both brothers returned to their father’s house 
> with their harvest.  The older brother was able to provide a modest amount of 
> grain of varying quality to the storehouses, but most of it was of only a 
> couple varieties, as their harvest equipment wasn’t well-suited for the other 
> types of grain.
>   
> The younger brother’s harvest was much larger, but no single grain made up 
> the majority.  There were equal amounts of each of the plants that went into 
> the storehouse, and the quality of this grain was higher and much more 
> consistent.
>   
> When the father was well enough to examine the results of the season he asked 
> each of the brothers what they had learned from their experience.  When they 
> had spoken he wrote their wisdom down and posted it on the wall of the barn.  
> This is what it said:
> ·         When asking for assistance, also ask for wisdom.  Knowing something 
> doesn’t mean you understand it.
> ·         Be clear about what you need.
> ·         Too much of a good thing is still too much, and some good things 
> aren’t needed at all; provide what is needed.
> ·         Look for signs of stress and understand when that is self-inflicted.
> ·         If you spend more time planning and organizing than you do 
> preparing the field for planting, your focus is on the plan, not the crop.
> ·         Be patient; some seeds just need more time than others.
> ·         When you sow by hand you may need to harvest accordingly.  See the 
> qualities and yield of each plant as unique and harvest when ready.
> ·         A “one-size-fits-all” approach only works if it fits all sizes.  
> More times than naught you need to particularize.
> ·         Some plants aren’t suited for your ground and never get 
> established.  You can change the makeup of your ground to suit them better, 
> but that may also kill off other plants that have already gotten established. 
>  Understand this is a fact of life and don’t try to be all things to everyone.
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