-Caveat Lector- The New York Times November 3, 1996 HEADLINE: 700 Days In Society And Politics; Fund-Raiser Wed To Billionaire Finds Roles Clash By ELISABETH BUMILLER Few people in the annals of New York society have made an entrance like that of Patricia Duff, the influential Democrat who two and a half years ago left behind a Hollywood studio executive, married the Revlon billionaire Ronald O. Perelman, gave birth to their child the following day, then turned her attention to raising enormous sums of money for President Clinton, her old friend. Ms. Duff soon became a pillar in the small, powerful circle of Manhattan investment bankers who have helped raise tens of millions of dollars in New York for the Democrats -- their part in making the 1996 campaign the most extravagantly funded in history. Often, she sat next to Mr. Clinton -- at a dinner at Mr. Perelman's hacienda in Palm Beach, Fla., then at two fund-raising events this year in New York. In April, Ms. Duff became chair of a get-out-the-women's-vote campaign for Emily's List, the political action committee that supports Democratic women candidates, and by this summer was under consideration to become a member of the United States delegation to the United Nations. But now, not quite 700 days after her wedding, and only two days before the election that has been a focus of her life for a year, Ms. Duff has largely vanished from public sight. Holed up at her own home in Southport, Conn., she is struggling to resolve the future of her marriage and her course in New York. Her crisis began in August, when she and her husband had a blow-up at the Democratic National Convention in Chicago. (Mr. Perelman's spokesman, James Conroy, calls it a "disagreement.") Friends of Ms. Duff say Mr. Perelman became so angry that he stormed out of the city early in his private jet, leaving his wife and daughter to get home on their own. Today, Ms. Duff's troubles remain the talk of Manhattan's political and social elite, though friends describe the conflict as more prosaic than one might suppose. "If you move the decimal point a little bit to the left -- maybe a lot to the left -- they're like 10,000 couples I've met from Queens," said former Gov. Mario M. Cuomo, who knows both. Ms. Duff's difficulties have nonetheless unfolded on a stage where the worlds of finance, politics and entertainment intersect, and where her friends in New York, Los Angeles and Washington are asking these questions about her future: If her marriage does not survive, will any financial settlement be enough to maintain her as a player in the stratosphere she now inhabits? Will she be hampered if her net worth is only in the tens of millions of dollars, an amount viewed by her husband's business associates as mere "rounding-off money" -- the difference, say, between $1.96 billion and $2 billion? Or will Ms. Duff, 42, a film-starlike beauty who reminds people of Grace Kelly, make peace with Mr. Perelman, 53, the cigar-smoking chairman of Revlon, with an estimated net worth of $4 billion? And will she press him further toward Democratic causes? (Common Cause reports that Mr. Perelman and his companies had contributed evenly to both parties until Mr. Clinton was elected. Since 1993, they have given $750,250 to the Democrats and $115,000 to the Republicans.) "Either way, Patricia Duff is going to continue to be involved in Democratic politics," said James Harmon, chairman of the investment banking firm of Schroder Wertheim and a leading Democratic fund-raiser in New York. "She has been involved in politics for most of her life." Ms. Duff's East Side town house has been an important port of call over the last 18 months for top Clinton Administration officials, many of whom she knew before her marriage to Mr. Perelman, a registered Independent. Friends describe her as intelligent and committed. Some say they would not be surprised if Mr. Clinton rewards her with a prominent appointment in a second term. Both Ms. Duff and Mr. Perelman declined to be interviewed. But many friends agreed to talk about their story, which tells much about the upper reaches of an insular and conservative part of New York. In this world, a billionaire's wife is often an ornament, a woman who gives his parties and manages his houses -- not someone with political ambitions of her own. "I don't think anybody understood what she was about," said a woman in Ms. Duff's circle. Even so, friends cannot describe Ms. Duff without returning to her beauty. It is not just ordinary attractiveness, they say, but an ethereal quality that over the years has helped advance her career, stirred jealousies among women and perhaps confused Ms. Duff herself about the reasons for her achievements. Without these qualities, and without the help of rich husbands, her friends insist, Ms. Duff could have succeeded on her own -- though not as quickly. The Fund-Raiser Warm Friendship With a President The city's Democratic establishment stuffed itself into a monstrous ballroom of the Sheraton New York last February for a $1,000-a-plate glimpse of the President. He sat at a front table surrounded, to no one's surprise, by his most important New York contributors. Mr. Perelman sat across from the President; on Mr. Clinton's left was Jane Harmon, a theatrical producer and Mr. Harmon's wife. Ms. Duff was on his right; Mr. Clinton spent more time talking to her than anyone else, and the two laughed easily like old friends. "She's been up there at the top of the Democratic political business since 1980," said the Democratic consultant Bob Squier. Ms. Duff was born Patricia Orr and grew up largely in Europe, where her father worked for Hughes Aircraft. She graduated from Georgetown University in 1976, worked on Capitol Hill and joined the staff of Patrick Caddell, the pollster. Later, Mr. Squier made her a vice president of his firm. As a brief first marriage to a lawyer named Dan Duff was ending, she left Washington to organize Hollywood for the 1984 Presidential campaign of Gary Hart, and in Los Angeles met Mike Medavoy, who ran Orion Pictures and was the national finance chairman of the Hart campaign. They married in 1986. Later, she founded a Los Angeles forum for political candidates called Show Coalition, which helped introduce an ambitious Arkansas governor to the Hollywood establishment. Mr. Clinton ended up staying at the Medavoys' Coldwater Canyon mansion one night in 1991 -- Mr. Medavoy was by then chairman of Tristar Pictures. As President, Mr. Clinton reciprocated by having the Medavoys spend a night in the White House. A friend said Ms. Duff recounted how the President had knocked on their door in the morning, announcing, "This is your wake-up call." Friends say Ms. Duff's marriage to Mr. Medavoy was in trouble by the summer of 1993. In January 1994, Mr. Medavoy resigned as chairman of Tristar; that spring, Ms. Duff was seeing Mr. Perelman, whom she knew through mutual friends. They married on Dec. 12, 1994, after Mr. Perelman's expensive divorce from his second wife, the television celebrity reporter Claudia Cohen. Ms. Duff's and Mr. Perelman's daughter, Caleigh Sophia, was born on Dec. 13. Friends of Mr. Perelman went out of their way to welcome his new bride, knowing that he was "mad" for her, as one of them put it. Barbara Walters and the socialite Gayfryd Steinberg gave Ms. Duff baby showers, and everyone talked about how ecstatic Ms. Duff had been when she learned she was pregnant after long years of wanting a child. What many people in these circles did not know was Ms. Duff's history with the Democratic party, or the extent of her political work. "She never made that clear," said a woman in Mr. Perelman's circle. "If you got an invitation from her that was politically oriented, I think people assumed it was because of Ronnie's money." The Billionaire's Wife A Devoted Mother Dives Into Politics In the first months after her daughter's birth, Ms. Duff worked out of Mr. Perelman's East Side town house, filled with works by Picasso, Matisse and Modigliani, but eventually moved to an office in a town house Mr. Perelman owns next door. She focused at first on a half-dozen charity projects, as well as the presidency of the Revlon Foundation and the chairmanship of a state task force on teen-age pregnancy. Most days, she rose early, left for the gym at 7:30 A.M. and returned by 9 to do business on the phone and in meetings. In between, she would spend time with her daughter. At 4 P.M., a butler brought fresh chocolate chip cookies. "Cookie time!" Ms. Duff would say to Kathryn Roth, vice president of the Revlon Foundation and Ms. Duff's political adviser. Ms. Duff usually worked until 7:30 P.M., and about half the time went out to dinner afterward with her husband. She took Caleigh everywhere she could. "She worked hard, and she put an awful lot into the baby," said Ms. Roth, who now works at the Pentagon. "Whatever she was doing, if the baby cried, she'd put it down and focus on the baby." (One friend from the Clinton campaign remembers going over to the Perelman house at Christmas and seeing at least a dozen children's car seats in the front hall. "What a great idea for gifts," the staffer said, only to be told that the seats were all for the cars in the Perelman fleet.) A highlight of those early months was the March 30, 1995, dinner in Palm Beach for Mr. Clinton and 15 others, including the actor Don Johnson and the singer Jimmy Buffett, who led guests after dinner in "Margaritaville." Subsequent events at the Perelman town house included a visit by Tipper Gore in the spring, a briefing by Leon Panetta, the White House chief of staff, in October, and a reception attended by Hillary Rodham Clinton in November, after which Mrs. Clinton joined Ms. Duff and her baby in the nursery for 45 minutes. On Valentine's Day this year, the day before the big Sheraton fund-raising dinner, Ms. Duff gave a small dinner at home for Vice President Al Gore. By this time, the Clinton-Gore campaign had raised all the money allowed by law, so the fund-raising operation had switched to soliciting what is known as "soft money" for the Democratic Party for which no ceilings on contributions apply. For the evening with Mr. Gore, Ms. Duff invited the art dealer Larry Gagosian, who later wrote two checks totaling $25,000, and the lawyer Joseph H. Flom, who contributed $100,000 to the Democrats this year and last, according to Federal Election Commission records. The big dinner at the Sheraton came the next day. For New Yorkers, it was the first public display of Ms. Duff's status at the White House. Its genesis also reflected her work up until then. The dinner had been originally scheduled for November 1995, when Mr. Clinton's political fortunes were floundering, but was postponed because of the assassination of Yitzhak Rabin, the Israeli Prime Minister, and then because of a winter storm. Two weeks before the original date, ticket sales were so slow that the dinner was "tanking," one staffer said. So Ms. Duff and a handful of other Democratic fund-raisers responded, by assembling 50 phones at Mr. Harmon's office at Schroder Wertheim and calling just about everyone they knew. In one day, some 100 people came in to sell the $1,000 tickets to friends, business associates, or strangers from the lists of names provided by the Democratic party. Ms. Duff worked from her own list. "Patricia comes in, she's wheeling her baby, and to her credit she gets on the phone and makes calls," Mr. Harmon said. "She's not a prima donna." Ms. Duff's life became increasingly hectic last spring, with a speech in Washington, a conference in Los Angeles, more fund-raising events at home -- and more checks written by her and her husband. Ms. Duff gave a reception at the town house at the end of June for Representative Robert G. Torricelli, the Democratic candidate for Senate in New Jersey. In that race, however, Mr. Perelman appears to have hedged his bets. Federal Election Commission records show that Mr. Torricelli got $1,000 from Mr. Perelman on June 3; the Republican candidate, Representative Richard A. Zimmer, received his $1,000 on June 4. After still more fund-raising events, including a $5,000-a-plate dinner at the Plaza Hotel, where Ms. Duff again sat next to Mr. Clinton, the Perelmans rested. In August, they took a 10-day break on a yacht off Italy with friends. The support staff floated along in its own boat. The Separation At the Convention, A Marital Fight Ms. Duff came back to the United States to serve as an official New York State delegate to the Democratic convention. She arrived in Chicago on a Sunday with her daughter and plunged immediately into a round of speeches, receptions and parties. Four days later, Mr. Perelman arrived and en route to the convention hall, asked his wife if she had attended a party at the restaurant of Michael Jordan, the basketball star, the night before. Friends say he had disliked her going to parties alone, so when she said yes, he became enraged. Ms. Duff's friends say he leapt out of the chauffeured car, got into another car in his motorcade, and was soon gone. Later that night, Ms. Duff's friends say, Mr. Perelman instructed his aides to begin dismissing his wife's staff, including her public relations aide, Alma Viator, who had already announced her resignation. "They were acting like some little tin-pot despots," said Ben Jones, Ms. Viator's husband, a writer and a former congressman from Georgia. "It's just a bad soap opera." Mr. Perelman's spokesman, Mr. Conroy, said Ms. Viator was not dismissed, and that four other assistants on Ms. Duff's staff were "reassigned" within Mr. Perelman's holding company, MacAndrews & Forbes. Ms. Duff and Mr. Perelman spent a weekend this fall in Paris, and on Oct. 17 appeared together at a Revlon charity ball in Los Angeles. But Ms. Duff was at neither of the two Presidential debates, the place for big donors to be seen, and she has withdrawn her name from consideration for the United Nations position. For the most part she remains in Southport, and from there talks to Mr. Perelman by phone and through lawyers. Friends of the couple say they have no idea whether they will reconcile. "I think the best thing in the world she could do is to be without a man," said a friend, echoing the others. Whatever happens, New York's Democrats cannot imagine that Ms. Duff will withdraw from the scene. She has invested too much time through two decades and three marriages, they say, to walk away now. "She didn't just want to be a power," said Representative Charles E. Schumer of Brooklyn. "She wanted to learn." GRAPHIC: Photos: For years, Ms. Duff has also been a top fund-raiser for the Democratic Party. In February, she sat at President Clinton's right at a $1,000-a-plate dinner at the Sheraton New York. Mr. Perelman sat across from them. (Thomas Dallal for The New York Times); Patricia Duff is the wife of Ronald O. Perelman, the Revlon billionaire (at a charity event in 1995). 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