I just scheduled my monthly one-on-ones with the student staff... so this is timely.

Your question-- what should people know about manager-and-worker-one-on-one meetings is very broad.

My answers aren't complete, just what I am thinking of as I write them. And I think that is really valuable for me as a manager to review why we do one-on-ones and how they are conducted.. so thank you for asking. Hopefully others can contribute and learn from this conversation.

I think the most important answer, if you can only have one answer, is what are the expectations (from both sides)?

Getting more into it, first, on the expectations and implications/scope:
- What is the purpose of the meeting?
- What should each/all of the participants get out of the meeting?
- Is this going to be used in any way for performance evaluation, or any other HR type action?

I use regular one-on-ones with the staff for a couple of related purposes:

- As a general check-in on how things are going. Not project specifics, not a status report, all the other stuff. Note: these aren't specific questions, just topics. How is work going? How's their workload? Working with the rest of the team? working with others outside the team? training? vacation? good stuff? problems? Communication with me (their manager) or others? Anything particularly interesting that they have been working on or learned as they worked? Any ideas for things we should change, improve, look at for the future? Career stuff? new projects they are interested in?

-Anything I (their manager) can improve or help with?

- For some staff, follow-up on any particular performance or other specific issues from past meetings

I think it is very valuable to have regular meetings scheduled. Even though I talk to most of the staff every day, having a set time that is "our" time to talk about these things. It helps to have a scheduled time, so I am not ambushing them, and they are not ambushing me. They can prepare mentally, think about what they want to bring up, etc.

 --david

On 07/07/16 16:22, Esther Schindler wrote:
Once again I'd like your input. I like to think the subject is interesting enough that you'll enjoy responding.

This obviously isn't networking-related, but it certainly is germane to techies. Or, really, to anyone who works in a corporate environment.

I’m writing a white paper that aims to give advice to creative workers (and to software developers in particular) about how to do one-on-ones well, in a way that benefits everyone (manager, employee, company… heck, the whole world). Fortunately, this isn’t a short piece, so I have some room to spread out. And I'd like your input (privately or publicly).

The key question: What should people know about manager-and-worker one-on-one meetings?

What do you wish your manager or employees had understood? What did you appreciate when they did?

Among the topics I’m going to cover: why one-on-ones are important; what dire things happen when you don't do them, or don't honor that process; how the one-on-one is different based on your roles (manager/peon, client/consultant, mentor/mentee); logistics and timing; what you should expect to talk about... and NOT to talk about; real life examples (and lessons to take away from them); judging success.

I’d love to hear from you about your advice and experience with one-on-ones – both the good ones and (even more valuably) when things did not work ideally. Tell me your stories. Anecdotes are awesome. If they happen to fit in any of the categories above, that’s groovy; if not, that’s cool too.

You don’t need to be an “authority” on HR or doing one-on-ones. I want real-world experiences!

It's completely okay to be anonymous; the point here is to share advice. Though if you would like to be quoted, that's do-able. (Context does help; if you've managed developers for 12 years readers will get a different perception than for someone on her first job.)

--Esther
 twitter.com/estherschindler


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