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From: "Wilkerson, Richard" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
Subject: troubled
Date: Tue, 05 Oct 1999 22:47:24 -0700
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Dream Title troubled
Date of Dream 10/5/99
Dream boyfriend having sex with a sexy,perfect body,exotic older lady.later
on her face is revealed and is his grandmothers face
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Permission to Comment yes_share_comments
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Subject: comments on Death of a Girlfriend
Date: Wed, 6 Oct 1999 03:25:44 EDT
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Dream Title: Death of a girlfriend by Josephine
Date of Dream: Oct. 4, 99 at about 6am
Comments: This is my first attempt to share a dream so please bear with me.
My son had the dream and I am at a loss to interpret it. He has had a very
tumultous week, his girlfriend found out that she was pregnant, then she
ended the pregnancy, which upset him. He also had to move back home with us
and is almost 200 miles away from his girlfriend. He is very, very much in
love with her. I believe this is significant to the dream.
Dream: In the dream, he and his girlfriend were walking to school (they
did
not attend school together in real life) and it started to rain, they were
happy that it was raining. They arrived there and saw some friends and
everything was normal except that everyone had blankets, which did not seem
unusual. Then they went to an end of school year party at my daughter's, and
another man wanted to have a menage-a-trios with them, explaining very
specifically what he wanted the girlfriend to do. They agreed and began,
then
the girlfriend indicated that she was no longer interested and my son
threw him out. My son went home and was awakened the next morning by a
policeman telling him that the girlfriend was killed and that he was the
main
suspect. My son followed the officer to a store in a van and could hear the
officer explaining to other officers that the girlfriend had been beaten to
death by the rejected man. He also heard that her best friend had survived.
My son tried to get in the officer's car, but was told that he could not go
with him on the investigation. So my son returned to the van, which his
step-father (whom he does not like) was now driving, in hopes of following
the officer. But they didn't follow and then they argued about music. The
drive was fast with skidding around corners (safely) and they ended up at
home. The house he described was large and very nice, like his girlfriend's
parent's house.
He told me and his step-dad about the murder and we were not upset about
it. He wanted to make some food to take over there so he could talk to his
girlfriend's best friend and I told him to make some chicken soup. (He and
his girlfiend had made chicken soup here last week during a visit, the day
she found out that she was pregnant).
The dream changed then. Another police officer (the one from the Simpsons
cartoon) came and he and my son got into a car with several other people and
drove along the edge of a canyon. The cartoon cop and a woman fell out.
As they were falling into the canyon, the woman ripped her hair out and
flung it up, holding onto one end. The other end of her hair attached itself
to a man's head and she reached for his legs with one hand and reached for
the cop with the other hand. She reached the cop just after he hit the
water,
his face went under water but the rest of his body had landed on a turtle
shell. Both of them were saved. (My son described this as if he was holding
the camera filming the descent)
Suddenly back at our house, my son heard thumping outside (the noise
teenagers' cars make when playing loud music) and looked out. He saw his
girlfriend's car and another car, a red one with two young women sitting in
it.
Then he woke up. He was sobbing and shaking. I have seldom seen him this
upset.
Comments: My son also described the movements of the cartoon cop as
surrealistic, squeezing and stretching in a cartoonlike manner.
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Josephine: I posted your son's dream to one of my other dream newsgroups and
this was the response:
Comments From: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Hi: I know people hate it when a dream interpretation is negative or blunt,
but how else could one interpet this one. The guy is scared to death that
his relationship is over.
#1 - the school represents life's lessons.
#2 - Part of the dream might be prophetic, but I don't want to go there,
since I don't know these people.
#3 - The rain could be emotions - like a release from a problem, perhaps.
Rain is also refreshing, the nourishing of the body and soul from above.
#4 - The blankets are protection. A cloaking from being involved in his
situation though other people are all around him.
#5 - The part about the other man might be a fear that being so far away,
his girlfriend will find someone else and still say she wants to be with him,
and because he loves her, he can't resist. And then the relationship will
end because she will like the other guy better. (Killing their relationship)
#6 - The cop is the authority figure. Could be his higher self.
#7 - The step-father image is typical. The step-father (driving) is in
control
of what he ultimately does and is not the same as what he wants. The
argument
about the music could be about music, but also about the difference in what
is harmonious to the step-father, vs what is harmonious to the young man.
#8 - The chicken soup is 'food for thought', and chicken soup is a healing
food. That was wise advice from the mother.
#9 - The cartoonish part is again his fears being looked at as he was heading
towards waking up. The canyon is a big hole which he feels he has fallen
into. Falling is also what it feels like as we are waking up sometimes.
His face went into the water (the emotions) and the turtle shell (where his
body landed) is a protective shell which he pulls around him, so others don't
see the real emotional self which he protects from others.
#10 - The girls hair is her thoughts which she ultimately attaches to someone
elses head - listens to others, the authority figures..
#11 - The girlfriend's red car is her sexuality. She has a girlfriend with
her, so must be someone close to her.
#12 - The mother doesn't say whether this dream happened while the radio
was playing. . . some radio alarms play music upon wakeup, and the music
could have come from that. Otherwise, I would assume the 'noise' is
disharmonious feelings about the girl and the situation.
His feelings upon awaking would be normal considering the events of the
dream.
Hope that helps. It was a bad situation, but the going to school part is
part of the lesson plan he chose when he came to earth, and the girl was a
partner in the lesson.
Sounds like he has a great mother.
Love, Light, and Joy
Dee
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