Oye! jaada serious ho gaye hunn assi, raati peg sheg lagaane haan teh cheti te madhu da hor vaaja vajaane haan...what say, guys?? *grin*
On Fri, Nov 14, 2008 at 3:25 PM, harbinder malhotra <[EMAIL PROTECTED] > wrote: > Jati ....money or job is not the only reason people leave this country...I > know so many people who have left flourshing business, highly paid jobs and > big houses to get away from this madness which has become India.Professional > reason was never on my mind when I replied to your mail > Reasons are endless but again we have the famous *chalta hai* attitude in > India which justifies everything which happens in our country. > > > > > --- On *Fri, 14/11/08, [EMAIL PROTECTED] <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > * wrote: > > From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > Subject: exghps1988v_v Re: Madhu Trehan episode > To: [email protected] > Date: Friday, 14 November, 2008, 2:42 PM > > > It could either be choice or majburi but it does not give us the right to > start bitching about it in public forum. The point that I was trying to make > was not whether India has shortcomings or not ..........it definitely has > and even I discuss it with people. All I am saying is that if the Cheti guy > wrote what he wrote, he should be ready to listen also. Many of our friends > forgot what Cheti wrote and were targeting Madhu on her comments. All I am > saying is if Cheti bitched about India, then it was also ok for Madhu to > bitch about America. I was all very fair and square. > > And by the way, due to the global recession, many want to come back to > India (A recent study on IIM placements that came in FE says that many > students have denied international placements because of global meltdown). > They are the same people who once bitched about India and went abroad. We > also cannot choose our parents and I know a lot of people to do not get > along. But they do not bitch in the open. > > Staying or not staying in India is a very personal choice. We cannot > generalize it. I am staying here by choice and I am sure there are many who > can migrate if they want but do not. > > What I do not understand is that what was the need for that Cheti guy to > write the note. If he does not like India .....fair enough ..... he can > continue to stay in US. But if he has written a note what is so wrong in > Madhu replying to it. The debate here is not about whether India has > problems or not or whether someone wants to stay here or not. Some people > took objection to what Madhu wrote. All I am saying is that if someone > writes to you, you have a right to response. If that guy wrote his heart > out, he should be ready to listen. > > Hope you guys understand. > > Cheers, > Jatinder > > > [EMAIL PROTECTED] > Sent by: [email protected] 11/14/2008 01:13 PM Please > respond to > [email protected] > > To > [email protected] cc > Subject > exghps1988v_v Re: Madhu Trehan episode > > > > > Jati...for many of us living in this country is not a choice but a > compulsion by matter of being born here(I include myself).I am gonna invite > lotta brickbats but I feel there are more reasons to leave India (if u have > a choice) rather than love India!! I am being candid I know but that is how > I feel... > Sent from BlackBerry(R) on Airtel > ------------------------------ > *From*: [EMAIL PROTECTED] > Date*: Fri, 14 Nov 2008 12:43:44 +0530* > To*: <[email protected]>* > Subject*: exghps1988v_v Re: Madhu Trehan episode > > I understand that Shelly. Till the time people discuss this over a coffee > table, it is ok. But if you are an Indian, staying abroad, and start > publically bitching about your country, someone has to tell you to shut up. > I fully agree with you that every country has problems and issues and it > does not help belittling any country. The Cheti guy should not have written > a note. And he was not ONLY trying to point out shortcomings. If you look at > the way he wrote a note, he was feeling shameful to be an Indian. In such > cases, one cannot remain silent. > > It is very clear that the Cheti guy does not like India. He has already > made a choice of leaving the country and staying in the US. He should be > happy with that. But if he decides to make his feelings public and bitch > about India (which is exactly what he did), then he should be ready to get > it back as well. > > Guys, we live in this country .... and we do it by CHOICE. What little or > more we have, this country has given it to us. No one has a right to bitch > about the country where we live. Madhu was well within her right to tell the > guy to shut up. Remember, she was not the one who started it. She only > RESPONDED to his note. > > This was the point that I wanted to make. > > Cheers, > Jatinder > > *"Shailender Monga" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>* > Sent by: [email protected] 11/14/2008 11:34 AM > Please respond to > [email protected] > To > [email protected] cc > Subject > exghps1988v_v Re: Madhu Trehan episode > > > > > > > I.P has explained brilliantly what I tried with brevity :) > > Jatinder, when i said it doesnt help belittling another country to help > yours shine in comparison, I meant both The Cheti guy and Madhu trehan. > > Look within should be the mantra. Look out for inspiration , and within for > the shortcomings. > > Cheers! > > > > > ------------------------------ > Check out the all-new face of Yahoo! India. 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