Hello Exim Experts, I'm always interested when this conversation rolls around again.
I remember being told to RTFM here and it really hurt. In the end, my question turned into an improvement in the documentation. There is never any reason to say RTFM to anyone. It is rude every time. If you don't want to answer the question, then why not save yourself the keystrokes and don't answer. That's all. Why make yourself ugly with a rude message? Also, it's harsh, but, it is never valid for adults to blame their rudeness on another person. Adults are responsible for their own behavior. However, as my old spiritual teacher used to say, we have not yet seen the adult of the species. Where's the F manual for being human? I expect there would be more women in technical fields if only there was more kindness and generosity of spirit in technical people. Best wishes, Marilyn Davis -- ## List details at http://www.exim.org/mailman/listinfo/exim-users ## Exim details at http://www.exim.org/ ## Please use the Wiki with this list - http://www.exim.org/eximwiki/