--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, enlightened_dawn11 <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj <vajradhatu@> wrote: > > > > > > On Oct 27, 2008, at 2:53 PM, do.rflex wrote: > > > > > I personally think what Barry suggested is the best way to handle > both > > > of them. Don't respond to them. Ignore them. Let them play by > > > themselves in their own dark little worlds. > > > > Bingo. > > > in fairness to Judy, Mr. B does consciously egg her on- he has said so > himself. both act very childish in the context of this particular > dynamic; Mr. B usually plays the sneaky goading one and Judy responds > as the outraged correcting one. over and over and over again. talk > about samskaras. >
Hmmm.... yogash citta-vRtti-nirodhaH.....abhyaasa-*vairaagyaabhyaaM* tannirodhaH? :D