--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "BillyG." <wg...@...> wrote: > <snip> > > Don't you get sick of being bombarded by woman's sexuality day and > night?
I can't relate to this at all. What are the options? This is life. And they get "bombarded" with masculinity. But the truth is that no one is bombarding you with anything. You are choosing this attention. From high school on up to mature adulthood woman are > constantly flaunting their sexuality "flaunting"? WTF, they are women. They aren't ashamed of being attractive. I can't believe you are missing your obvious projection onto them. From what you have written, I can be pretty sure they are doing it for YOUR attention. Maybe they feel best when they look this way. Most of these are much younger women finding their way in the world right? Use that old age of yours to summon up a bit of compassion for the younger generation gramps. They are learning all the tricks in the game of life. Just because you have dropped out of the dance doesn't mean everyone else has. I am tickled to notice when younger people are feeling their oats. Good for them. They still have some! < and vanity> Now you have fallen out of "prudish old man" to "scary old man." Vanity? What textbook are you taking this lesson plan out of? Being happy about how good you look is a valuable aspect of self esteem. And that appropriately includes being sexually attractive to the opposite sex. You want the world to stop spinning because you are choosing to be unpleasantly judgmental about someone else's choices that are NONE of your business? Are you the Church Lady? < for men AND other> woman. Are you afraid the women might want to kiss each other? Be honest. < It's as bad (or worse) as men ogling them constantly. > It sounds like that is what you are doing. And again with the weird spin: ogling? Noticing someone is attractive is wrong? Commercials, dress, movies, internet, and on and on and on! Grow up! > And become a sour old puss like you? Not a chance. And you know what those young women and men who are learning how to express their sexuality and project it into the world ARE going to do? Grow up. It is inevitable. Some of them will become wizened, sour old prunes and some will have a sparkle in their eye that will communicate to the opposite sex, "Isn't life wonderful, I find you attractive." But not with you, oh no. You are afraid of them "ogling" you! I just played a gig at a nursing home and I got major ogled. With my gray streaks in my hair I was a young chicken to these ladies, and when I sang my blues full of innuendo and life, their eyes sparkled as they caught mine. We saw the spark of attraction in each other, knowing the days of "flaunting" it were over. But for a moment they felt the electric charge of opposites attracting, one of the most precious,beautiful feelings in life. Your impoverished view of sexuality diminishes your life. You are like a person who only sees food as harmful. I'll just bet you have the kitchen cupboard of a fasting nun. If I had you over for dinner you would spend the whole time in horror at all the "bad" foods I was eating. You have twisted sensuality to always mean sexuality, like so many religious fanatics. Put the women in Burkas so they can't "tempt" men! Circumcise them so they don't feel sexual pleasure or they will go wild and have sex with everyone. Women are evil temptresses with their flowing hair and their apples form the Garden of Eden and poor Billy resents their ability to pitch his tent against his will! You really are living in the wrong society or century. Tomorrow I'm gunna go out to the Home Depot and hope some lovely young thing "bombards" me with her "vanity." I should be so lucky! What a fun rant Billy! I can always count on you to set me off. Thanks!
