I lOoOoOoOove this post I think it is worth doing and intelligent There does not have to be suffering in the world
Sidebar-unfortunately,some who are recipients of this love mistakenly interpret it as erotic/romantic love instead of receiving it as noutrishing and natural and edifying and be warmed by it and let it saturate them every square of their waffle -ness and let it ooze out onto others to the benefit of all humanity or a small section of the earth anyhow I will endeavor to travel on, strewing petals of care about me whence /where I go There isn't enough love in the world and not enough time in this life to give all I have about I ll have to hasten on and hope these lost hearts on need of a soulmate will find such --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Robert <babajii...@...> wrote: > > Are You A Love Genius? > > by Shannon Peck > > Many people arrive on earth as a prodigy. They may have an uncanny > ability for math, art, music or another subject at a very early age. > Michael Moore had President Kennedyâs inaugural speech memorized by > the time he was six years old. Beethoven and many of the classical > musicians had genius gifts arrive at early ages. Even my mom, by the > time she was five years old, could figure out chords on the piano and > play by ear. These people have genius in a specified path. > > But have you ever heard of a Love genius? Do you know one? Are you > one? > > My husband is a love genius. He has a vast array of skills expressing > amazing and continuous love in all his relationships. He creates > loving relationships all around him. > > Behind genius is an arsenal of resources, almost unimaginable. The > depth of talent is endless. Genius shows up as an overriding > experience in every day living. Behind love-genius is an extremely > well developed ability to maneuver with love regardless of the > situation even if itâs a bad day or conflict arises. In fact, a love- > genius rises even higher in cases of conflict. A love-genius shifts > into great patience to weather a conflict and to help move both > themselves and others through the rough times with loving speech while > being attentive and empathetic. This takes patience! > > Having seen my husbandâs love-genius in action for over 17 years now, > I can tell you that it is not only possible, but it is a living > reality in our home. Together, our love-genius has bonded and > continually reaches new heights. Hereâs a few ways you can use this > list to increase your own love-genius. > > Express good will â" be continually friendly to friends, associates, > and strangers, even on a bad day. This is generous. It makes everyone > feel good, including yourself. And it continually pronounces the value > of love and of each individual having personal worthiness to be > loved. > Enjoy people â" Have confidence interacting with people without > manipulation or a hidden agenda. People feel this as a strong presence > of love. > Be a great listener - not only tuning into a personâs conversation and > concerns, but also, and more deeply, to their hearts. > Be responsive - often repeat back what you think you heard someone > communicate, even at the deeper level. People love this! It causes > them to feel loved and honored. > Offer generous praise - emphasize someoneâs good points whenever > possible. Do this often and as part of your generosity. People respond > with encouragement. > Speak from the heart â" learn to be comfortable with intimacy. And when > you feel emotionally safe with another who isnât judging you, lovingly > express how you feel. When there is conflict, use gentle kindness and > consideration. > Express love â" This is the most important thing to a love genius. > Focus on love regularly. Review your actions. Grow. Assess how you can > improve, without judging yourself for sometimes falling short. > Be patient â" with yourself and others, offering wiggle room for lots > of mistakes and to get you through stress, while still being loving. > Forgive yourself - when you fall short of your goal to love. > > When my husband comes into conflict (he sells real estate and there > are plenty of opposing opinions about the price of a house, especially > during negotiations), he goes into his love-genius mode of being a > powerful peace maker, unifying everyone in good will and with the goal > of arriving at a fair price for both parties. He articulates this > beautifully and continually, with enormous patience and persistence, > until his warmth and empathy surround the situation. > > Far from being a ploy, itâs his true genius at work. It also has a > practical side. He rarely loses a deal because of conflict. His love > acts like glue to continually check in with others feelings and > problems, taking valuable time to address their concerns, regardless > of how much pressure he is under in a stressful day. Far from being > weak, his actions reveal the strength and power of love. > > Our unselfishness, thoughtful caring, patience, and generosity of > heart are powerful skills to override negativities. This is the model > of love genius. > > Each of us has genius. Most often, it isnât obvious to ourselves. But > as we listen to our inner heart, there is a voice within that guides > and provides light revealing who we really are beyond the superficial > surface of limitation. As Love Masters, each of us has the capability > of genius with love! By focusing on love as the most important part in > your life, you can dramatically increase your genius as a Love Master > and grow, causing everyone around you to feel your love and to be > inspired to keep it going for yourself as well. Such a goal is worth > every effort and offers the potential of true love-fulfillment and > genius. > > > Copyright © 2009 by Shannon Peck >
