--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "mainstream20016" <mainstream20...@...> 
wrote:
>
> For a day or two this posting week,  a glimpse of maturity 
> appeared.  Now, the sixth-grader has reappeared.  Go away, 
> sixth grader ! Don't take the bait ! Re-enter the classroom 
> devoid of juvenile neuroses.  You can do it.  

Actually, she can't. That's what makes it 
Borderline Personality Disorder.

She *started* the week attacking me, stay-
ing up so she could get in the official 
"last word" from last week, posted at lit-
erally one minute before the end of the 
last posting week. (How "six years old" 
is THAT?) Only 40 minutes later she had 
to do another "Bash Barry" post, because 
I guess the first one hadn't really
gotten the venom out of her system. 

*Then* she "laid low" for a couple of days,
obviously so stung by having been easily
lured into posting out early every other
week for months that she was trying desper-
ately not to do it again. It helped that I 
was doing exactly what I said in my CORRECTOR 
Newsletter parody and ignoring her silly
ass, and giving her no provocation.

Then someone called her on her BPD and she
seems to have lost it, reverting back to
her standard M.O. in post #242471, dropping
back into Victim Mode. I made a few posts
critical of or making fun of the TMO (*not*
her personally, *not* TMers as a whole), 
and she (for once) *didn't* jump on them,
preferring to "simmer" in Victim Mode until
Monday. 

I meanwhile continued as usual, making fun 
of That Which Deserves To Be Made Fun Of, 
the TMO. And the occasional individual TMer 
who deserved a pranging, such as JohnR. She 
then dropped the pretense of not being in 
"Bash Barry" BPD Mode and made nine posts 
in a very short time either bashing Barry
or "correcting" something he said. Or, even
more insane, pretending to be replying to
one of them as if she expected an answer,
when she hasn't gotten one in months.

Enter Curtis, nailing her on her "TMers 
Rule" elitism. And it's "off to the races" 
again. Having gotten someone to actually 
*participate* in one of her venom-fests, 
she managed to slip my name into almost 
every one of her subsequent exchanges with 
Curtis. A dispassionate viewer might think 
that she was actually more interested in Yet 
Another Opportunity To Bash Barry than she 
was in the pissing contest with Curtis. 

At this point I had *still* not entered the
fray and commented. Then, last night, I did.
And the six-grader took over, in full BPD
Mode, and will remain in charge until she
posts out again early this week, even after
trying desperately not to by "laying low"
the early part of the week.

Could there *BE* a more classic case of 
Borderline Personality Disorder? She'll find 
a way to turn almost *anything* into an "attack,"
because the inner child inside a near-70-year-
old woman is so damaged that it only feels
"real" and "alive" when it thinks it's being 
"attacked" and has to defend itself. Or others,
who not only never asked her to defend them,
but are embarrassed when she does it.

It'd be almost entertaining (in an ongoing,
predictable, soap opera kind of way) if it 
weren't so sad.


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