--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "raunchydog" <raunchydog@...> wrote:
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> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "card" <cardemaister@> wrote:
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> > Google translation (only slightly edited) of a post from Ilveksen
> > tytar (Daughter of an ilves = bobcat) in a astrology forum:
> >
> > Hi,
> >
> > I figured out that Let the anonymous ask can feel on the subject, which is
> > a little funny. I have thought about this for a few weeks, but I have not
> > dared to ask anybody. Although this is a well of natural relates to a taboo
> > still such that is difficult to break ..
> >
> > I am a professional nurse. A few times I have come across the situation of
> > nursing care, where the patient has received an erection. I understand that
> > this is hopelessly between - and always in such a situation taklannut "no
> > jaahas, let's not anything here" - non-verbal attitude and always has been
> > a feeling that the patient remained uneasy.
> >
> > A couple of years ago I went to reiki 1 - the course and I have also
> > studied other energy therapies. Now, to some, I have decided to start the
> > adoption of energy treatments at home. One and a half years from now will
> > graduate acupunkture nurse, so it is a good practice to being a healer
> > shoes in advance.
> >
> > So - I'm also regularly riding a young horse that is just the world's best.
> > I have now given it reiki on two occasions, and each time it has received
> > an erection. * cough * - What is it now, then think about ... I guess it is
> > a positive sign, I try to be, without analyzing it too much. It is,
> > however, a young stallion, which has Stam ..
> >
> >
> > Now to me then, however, has struck a small panic. What if a male person
> > comes by my office and cases where it is so funny that he had an erection?
> >
> > So how in that situation then really to behave ... Or, perhaps more
> > important question is that whether it be that I somehow transmit some
> > sexual energy involuntarily - Would it help, give a grounding before
> > treatment was provided, or something? Or should I wear a chastity belt
> > just in case?
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> >
> > Gratefully, I receive answers from more experienced.
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> If you're [not] dealing with someone trying to hit on you, an exhibitionist,
> or a pervert, it's nothing personal and not anything you caused. The guy is
> just relaxing, and Reiki is especially relaxing. Ignore it and casually place
> a towel or blanket over him. If you choose to acknowledge it, don't make a
> big deal out of it and above all don't assume you're the cause of it, unless
> he indicates otherwise, in which case, clearly state your boundaries.
>
> Working in a private practice is a whole other situation where clear
> boundaries for yourself of what you will or will not do are absolutely
> essential. Starting out with referrals only or working only with women, who
> often refer husbands and significant others, provides a layer of confidence
> in your personal safety. Screen your patient calls over the phone before
> setting an appointment. If it doesn't feel right, refer them elsewhere.
> That's the benefit of private practice...you can refuse treatment.
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> I've worked with rehab patients in hospital and in private practice, manual
> therapy, hands-on just about everywhere and rarely does the problem come up
> unless I use a modality that evokes relaxation. A friend once told me she
> just hits it with a fly swatter, joking of course. Sorry, no advice for your
> situation with the horse.
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