--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Irmeli Mattsson" > <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > > > Their way of relating to each other feels like a troubled > > > > marriage. > > > > > > Except that at the beginning of a marriage, > > > the two people think they love each other. > > > That they start out this way is an important > > > component of their later troubles which is > > > entirely missing here. With the married > > > couple, a betrayal of trust is involved, a > > > trashing of the original loving feelings. > > > > > > Why do some of you seem unable to accept > > > mutual dislike for what it is, and feel > > > compelled instead to see it in the context of > > > a romantic relationship--either originally > > > or ultimately--simply because it's between > > > a man and a woman? > > > > > > You're trying to force it into a pattern > > > that you're already familiar with rather > > > than seeing it on its own terms, and as a > > > result you can't evaluate it accurately. > > > > **** > > I was just accounting about my spontaneously felt impression that I > > often get, when I read your mutual communication, and I can have it > > wrong. I also sense a strong bond between you two even if it is > > felt as dislike. Hate and love are not so different energetically. > > They can change places. > > Actually, just to give you the other side of this, > I don't actually dislike Judy at all. I *really* > enjoy poking fun at her sometimes, because she's > such a prig, but that's just me. > > I wish her nothing but the best and would sit down > over a drink with her anytime. But I doubt very > seriously that she would agree. You see, as she > has stated very clearly above, she really *does* > dislike me. > > I think that there is probably a nice self in there > somewhere if it just stopped trying to impress it-self > and other selves.
But its your bhoddhisatvic (sp) duty to push her buttons as often as possible... ------------------------ Yahoo! Groups Sponsor --------------------~--> Get fast access to your favorite Yahoo! Groups. Make Yahoo! your home page http://us.click.yahoo.com/dpRU5A/wUILAA/yQLSAA/JjtolB/TM --------------------------------------------------------------------~-> To subscribe, send a message to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Or go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ and click 'Join This Group!' Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
