Well Daniel Goleman's best selling and ground breaking book is called Emotional Intelligence and could be considered a classic. So I'm guessing he's familiar with more than thinking. As for their smiles, maybe they are camera shy.
________________________________ From: "doctordumb...@rocketmail.com" <doctordumb...@rocketmail.com> To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Sunday, October 6, 2013 12:45 PM Subject: RE: Re: Re: Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: Re: FBI arrests Silk Road suspect The dude looks like his head is going to explode, from thinking so much. And what is with their vampire smiles? ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, <fairfieldlife@yahoogroups.com> wrote: iranitea, I agree. Here's an interview with Tara Bennett-Goleman and Daniel Goleman on that topic of freeing the mind that I received today: http://www.dailygood.org/story/564/how-the-mind-can-heal-the-heart-jill-suttie/ ________________________________ From: iranitea <no_re...@yahoogroups.com> To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Saturday, October 5, 2013 4:27 PM Subject: RE: Re: Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: Re: FBI arrests Silk Road suspect ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, <fairfieldlife@yahoogroups.com> wrote: iranitea, thank you and I do consider myself very fortunate. I think becoming totally free of the prison of ignorance can take lifetimes and I'm not yet completely free of that prison. Thanks Share, but that's not how I had meant it. There are different prisons, or should I say cages, and it's quite possible to free yourself from some dependency, mental or otherwise, some limiting mental constructs, or influences before ultimate realization. And maybe the most dire prison of all is thinking we are free when we're not. Anyway, happy nine nights of Mother Divine. Blessings of Mother Divine on you always. The next three days, blessings of MahaDurga. Oh, good you told me. I spent my time doing some photoshopping an image for facebook Be kind to warrior women! Those of the right kind. ________________________________ From: iranitea <no_re...@yahoogroups.com> To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Friday, October 4, 2013 11:48 AM Subject: RE: Re: [FairfieldLife] RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: Re: FBI arrests Silk Road suspect Oh thanks Share. I like to be corrected, if it's not used as an opportunity for a put down, as it has been happening so often. Share, I really liked your comment about the PR anniversary. I like that you don't give in to all the collective pressure, of some of the group members here, that you are in fact NOT back peddling. I like you to know, that I am completely with you on this issue. PR is a strong word, but I do think that it was needed, and can well be understood. Don't give in to some wrong understood political correctness, which is basically the argument of your opponents. You are the one who clearly felt and perceived the kind of unwanted intrusion, and it is you who have to draw the red line. All the bad mouthing of your character is rubbish, you have not been the intruder in this regard. You had to deal here with a master manipulator - and you were able to see through this, and free yourself from that influence. Sometimes you have to step out of a prison, to realize you have been in a prison. There are prisons of mental concepts and conditionings. To free oneself from these may sometimes take years or decades. It doesn't matter how long you were exposed to these concepts, they may still take roots in you - obviously many have a hard time to get rid of this. Consider yourself lucky! ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, <fairfieldlife@yahoogroups.com> wrote: iranitea, usually people say back peddling, like on a bicycle. But I like back paddling too. Like in a boat. I also could go for, on a rainy day, back puddling, that is, jumping backwards into a puddle (-: ________________________________ From: iranitea <no_re...@yahoogroups.com> To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Friday, October 4, 2013 11:14 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: Re: FBI arrests Silk Road suspect ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, <fairfieldlife@yahoogroups.com> wrote: Iranitea, now truly desperate to score a point: > But have you ever considered, that you don't know anything about what you are > talking >>>> about? >>> >>> >>>You mean, as to whether Barry knows about the Dark Web? I'm not certain of >>>that, of course, which is why I said "I don't think Barry knows..." See his >>>post #359659 to Seraphita and let us know what you think. >>> >>>Oh, oh, back-paddling >>> >>> >>> >>>> I mean, you say 'Gracious no' as if it would be illegal or even ethical >>>> wrong to use Tor, or >>>> pages accessible only through it - or encryption in times of almost total >>>> Internet surveillance! >>> >>> >>> >>>Yar. That must be why I posted this to Seraphita (#359600): >>> >>> >>>There are apparently many thousands of similar sites on the Dark Web. Silk >>>Road and Atlantis (which closed down a couple of weeks ago) were only the >>>most prominent. >>> >>> >>>(Disclaimer: I don't use any of 'em, but I've been reading about them; I >>>find the whole Dark Web concept fascinating. It's also used, BTW, by legit >>>activists and journalists who need to keep their communications secret and >>>untraceable. So it isn't inhabited only by Bad Guys selling drugs and guns >>>and child porn.) >>> >>> >>>Ooooopsie... >>> >>>Ooopsie, then why did you say: Gracious No? >>> >>>> And, I think, you know as much about 'Spirituality' and 'Sadhana' as you >>>> know about Tor and >>>> PGP. It's something that you are reading about on the internet and then >>>> regurgitate it. >>> >>> >>> >>>Well, I do think you and I have different ideas of what an effective sadhana >>>should result in. Repeatedly shooting yourself in the foot and not having >>>the minimal humility to laugh at yourself for doing so is not on my list of >>>positive outcomes. >>> >>>Neither mine. Oh, did you say this about me? >>> >>>> And with regard to you, I do think it's a function of old age. >>> >>> >>>What is a function of old age? >>> >>>Now, please spare me a detailed analysis. But it has been pointed out and >>>explained to you quite recently by a number of people, most recent one was >>>Xeno. You are of course immune to that, which is part of the problem. Now, >>>Judy, I do indeed believe, that you basically believe in what you are >>>saying. That is to say, to your own conscious awareness, you are truthful. >>>The problem is only, that you take your own insights, or opinions for >>>granted, and your 'intuitions' for facts, which they are not. >>> >>>This, together with an increased aggressiveness, and stubbornness, and an >>>attempt to cover up your own mistakes, concentrate on silly side issues, >>>that is basically what has been perceived and pointed out by many here. Your >>>constant GET Barry and Share, or whoever is in the shooting line. So don't >>>complain if someone is shooting back. >>> >>> >>> >>>---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, <fairfieldlife@yahoogroups.com> wrote: >>> >>> >>>Iranitea, each time you return to FFL from wherever you go when you aren't >>>here, it seems as though both your IQ and your spirituality have >>>deteriorated from your previous visit. Oh, and your English comprehension >>>and mind-reading abilities as well. >>> >>> >>>Maybe you should reconsider whether your sadhana is actually depriving you >>>of brain cells. I don't think what we're seeing here is just the normal >>>gradual mental decline of aging. >>> >>> >>>Iranitea wrote: >>> >>> >>>> Of course! You sounded so proud, knowing about these things, so I thought >>>> you might at >>>>>>> least know what you are talking about. >>>>>> >>>>> >>>>> >>>>>---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, <fairfieldlife@yahoogroups.com> wrote: >>>>> >>>>> >>>>>Iranitea keeps trying: >>>>> >>>>> >>>>>> And you surely have been to the dark web, have been using Tor and >>>>>> encrypted emails with >>>>>>>> PGP or GPG, right? >>>>>>> >>>>>>> >>>>>>> >>>>>>>Gracious, no, wrong. Have you? >>>>>>> >>>>>>> >>>>>>>I wrote: >>>>>>> >>>>>>> >>>>>>>I don't think [Barry] knows about the Dark Web and Tor and Atlantis and >>>>>>>Silk Road and so on.