---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, <turquoiseb@...> wrote:

 ...is that people who are obsessed don't seem capable of recognizing that 
they're obsessed. 
 

 And this would explain why you are writing another post about Judy and about 
Robin?

Their own behavior goes completely over their heads, and they fail to see what 
almost everyone watching them sees...that they're caught up in an obsession. 
 

 See my comment above.

As an example, consider some stuck-in-his-head mental midget who gets a 
wild-hair-up-his-ass idea that God (yes, the same God who is on record as 
having smitten millions of innocent people because he was pissed off at them) 
became so affronted by the bombing of an obscure Christian monastery during WW2 
that He withdrew His presence from the very Creation He had created, and 
basically told all its sentient creatures to fuck off, because He would never 
have anything to do with them again. 
 

 And imagine someone else thinking there was no creator, no God, no nuttin' 
beyond what they can perceive with their 5 senses. 

OK, this is ludicrous, right? 
 

 I would say so.
 

 You would think that the first time said mental midget dared to say this out 
loud or in print he'd catch a clue from the way people reacted and realize that 
he was talking crazy, right? But nooooooo. Said mental midget goes on and on 
and on and on, trying to make other people agree with this insanity. In other 
words, he was obsessed with the weird stuff in his head, just because it was in 
*his* head. And, he was incapable of even realizing that he *was* obsessed. 
Crazy, right?
 

 You said it and are demonstrating it very well, Bawwwwwwyyyyy. This is fun, 
wouldn't you say? I mean look at you, perfectly embodying all of the "crazy" 
stuff you accuse others of. And the funniest part is... you don't even realize 
it!! Now that is, on one level, hilarious and on another worthy of eminent 
scholarly note. They're shaking their heads and pursing their lips as they read 
this, unable to believe their luck at finding a psychologically fascinating 
goldmine like yourself. Maybe at the end of the year they'll reveal themselves 
and all of the psychological findings they have amassed. They might bind a 
special edition just for you to take out to parties, to the coffee houses and 
bars so you can show people - just imagine!

Now imagine a lonely, 70-plus-year-old spinster who listens to this crap and 
not only doesn't challenge it, but develops an obsession of her own with the 
mental midget in question. Never having met him, she makes almost 1700 posts to 
or about him to an obscure Internet group that no one cares about, turning 
"defending him" and "explaining what he really meant" into something that 
similarly goes on and on and on and on. This crush on the mental midget in 
question gets so bad that she embarrasses herself thoroughly, resorting to lies 
and insults to "defend" him, and destroying whatever little credibility she had 
on the forum. 
 
I'm trying to help you, Bawwy, so I'll just switch a few of the letters in the 
last paragraph you wrote here:
 

  And throughout all of this, it doesn't ever occur to him that he's obsessed. 
He would probably bristle at the idea and write dozens of stinging replies 
pointing out how absurd the idea is. Come to think of it, he probably will...
 

 Thanks again for this fun little opportunity to post to you. It always starts 
my day out with a chuckle.

 


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