Just to follow up, Buddhists can believe in reincarnation without even the notion of "self," much less the notion of God. As you say, such concepts seem to be beyond you.. :-) From: "TurquoiseBee turquoi...@yahoo.com [FairfieldLife]" <FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com> To: "FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com" <FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com> Sent: Thursday, February 12, 2015 7:29 AM Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Last rites I feel the way I do about the notion of reincarnation because of personal experience 'remembering' previous lives and even 'remembering' the transit through the Bardo between death and rebirth.
At the same time, I know that these 'memories' may be false, so I don't know fersure what will happen at the moment of death. I've said this many times -- if it turns out that death is like the switching off of a light switch and there is only blackness, then there will be no "me" to be disappointed, or to even register the disappointment. So for now I'm going to go with "looking forward" to what comes next, because that strikes me as the best way to live one's life at ANY moment, not just one's last. But as for trying to link the notion of God to reincarnation, that's your hangup, not mine. Millions of Buddhists believe in reincarnation without having to believe that there is a God. The two concepts are not related in any way. From: "s3raph...@yahoo.com [FairfieldLife]" <FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com> To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Thursday, February 12, 2015 4:01 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Last rites Re "it's the end of the day here in sunny CA": Ah! The sun! It's been a while since I saw that here in London. I'm not irritated, never mind over-irritated. I do find it odd though that Barry believes he's got an immortal soul and yet scoffs at the idea of "God". How anyone could suppose that a materialist-naturalistic account of life could justify belief in a post-death existence is beyond me. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, <jamesalan735@...> wrote : Goodness, don't you think you're getting a tad over-irritated? I know my response is the trigger, not the cause of your over-the-top reaction, but still...relax. Yep, I could have been clearer. So, here's my corrected response to anartaxius' comment: You have not defined what it means for 'looking forward' to work. Looking forwardto what comes next does not require that there is a 'next' for lookingforward to work. I'm not sure why I'm going to this trouble because I don't think you will be able to understand the logic and/or the underlying assumptions in my response. But, heh, it's the end of the day here in sunny CA... ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, <s3raphita@...> wrote : Re "Looking forward to what comes next does not require that a next to exist for looking forward to work. ": WTF?! Is English not your first language? Barry presumably believes that his good self will carry on existing in some future state. If that strikes one as unlikely then looking back on one's past and only life seems a reasonable way to spend one's last moments no? Barry is also caricaturing Robert Anton Wilson's sense. RAW clearly wasn't thinking of people he may have wound up on a Yahoo groups site (few of those will be shedding tears tonight) but of former friends he'd perhaps let down or loved ones he'd fallen out with. He wanted to get reconciled with those he'd personally and intimately interacted with and so felt were a significant part of his identity. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, <jamesalan735@...> wrote : You have not defined what looking forward to work means. Looking forward to what comes next does not require that a next to exist for looking forward to work. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, <anartaxius@...> wrote : This would not work if there is no next. ---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, <turquoiseb@...> wrote : The notion of spending my last moments concerned what others thought of me and hoping for them to forgive me doesn't appeal to me. What I hope for at the moment of death is a sense of expectation and looking forward to what comes next. 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