> > > > I find the > > > > concept of women thinking of a man as a "good > > > > catch" because of his income more offensive than > > > > any of the racist epithets attributed here to Tom. > > > > > > You're offended by women who think of finding a > > > good catch, or offended by the person who looks > > > upon women in such a light? > > > > > > Regardless, it may be safe to say the TMO culture -- > > > Maharishi's culture -- encouraged an old-fashioned > > > arrangement whereby the man worked and the woman > > > devoted herself to her family. > > > > > > I recall a videotape about the role of devotion in > > > culturing god consciousness. MMY said that if both > > > husband and wife worked, each would be too spent > > > at day's end to devote themselves to the marriage. > > > One person would need to be fresh. I saw this on a > > > men-only course. I imagine the women -- or the > > > ladies, as one says in the TMO -- saw the same tape. > > > > Thanks for the explanation. The women who saw > > this tape and actually believed it are free to > > search for men who share the same degree of > > gullibility. Me, I'll hold out for more. :-) > > So you think that, all else being equal, a stay-at-home mom/dad > doesn't usually make a better parent than one whose attention is > divided by office and family?
Irrelevant. I am not a parent and plan to never be one. I chose a different path, and am looking for someone who chose the same (childless) path. That said, the happiest and brightest and most successful children I know are from households in which both parents work, and always have. In my opinion, the superiority of the stay-at-home parent is just that, a myth. ------------------------ Yahoo! Groups Sponsor --------------------~--> Dying to be thin? Anorexia. Narrated by Julianne Moore. http://us.click.yahoo.com/abEMxA/sbOLAA/d1hLAA/0NYolB/TM --------------------------------------------------------------------~-> To subscribe, send a message to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Or go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ and click 'Join This Group!' Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/